OT: The Game - let's speak on it!!!!

I just can't help it yall - that earlier dating post got me really trippin..... Sistas - are we REALLY that blind these days?  Have we let the bruhs run UNCOMPLICATED, IMAGINATION-LESS game these days?????

Way back, my Aunt Thelma ran niccas like a Pimp Named SlickBack, she ain't work, but had mortgage,k groceries, clothes and car PAID for - 5 different dudes.  And when one had the AUDACITY to try to yell at her for playin him - out came the switchblade!!!!  She wasn't no punk!!!!

My aunt Lucille had a hubby - Uncle Essex.  He was KNOWN to cheat on her, and she knew his game - told that nicca just to be sure to have his azz home to SLEEP in her bed.... nicca bucked up and showed up through the door AT BREAKFAST one morning - tole her to fix his plate, mofo sat down with his back to her.... next thang he know - he got a hot sensation of grits flowing down his back along with his SKIN!!!!!!  - whenever we wanted to **** with him years later, we'd say - It's hot Uncle Essex - why don't you take your shirt off? 

Alls I am saying is where did WE lose OUR backbone and let bruhs dictate to US what they GON do - instead of us knowing the power of the p*ssy and DEMANDING excellence??????

Too many women listen to the stats and think if they want a man at all they'd better settle for any man.  Then there are those whom no one taught any better.   Thankfully, I was blessed with both a mom and a dad that taught me to take no bull **** from any man period. 

While we're on the subject, let's talking the game-playing women.  You talk about slick....ooooo weeeeee!

Fo sho!  But how many ninjas you heard of being oh so played repeatedly?  Let's be real now - the ratio of played sistas to played bruhs is VERY low

30, 20, 10 or even 5 years ago, I would have agreed with you wholeheartedly.  Roles have changed.  Times have changed.  In fact, I would venture to say that more WOMEN play games than MEN.    I can look at the women that I interact with....8 out of 10 cheat on their spouses/SO and do so repeatedly. 

There's cheating and there's disrespecting.  I say you can cheat and be respectful of your SO or you can be a ho AND be sloppy in the game.

If you gon tip - you gotta keep your game TIGHT - mofo should NEVA know NOR suspect they are being played

and I totally agree...which is why I cannot respond to Mack....the difference is, women are so damn good at that **** that no one knows!

Men talk....women remain confidential with their ****like CATS....women bes some sneaky creatures! ~ Meoooow~

I totally think that women "talk" to make men think they are pimpin, but low and behold, it's the women who are really creeping.

Whoeva quoted, "Payback is a *****!" was right on time!

I have always said the reason it is hard to find a decent man is so many women will do ANYTHING just to say they have a man.

Whether it is sharing or putting up with his schitt. So many women will drop a kid for man without a man offering any type of commitment and wonder why the brotha disappear on down the line. So many women are willing to come off the azz with no commitment whatsoever from the brotha. What one woman want do another forty down the road will be willing to do it.

As I stated on the other post whenever you have to ask for anyone advice on what you should do in a relationship that is when you should look at yourself.