OT: The Game - let's speak on it!!!!

"So many women will drop a kid for man without a man offering any type of commitment"


Hard as it is to conceive, SOME women don't want commitment.  SOME women just want to ****   Period.

DAMN SKIPPY!!!

and contrary to popular belief--MOST women can separate emotions from the wee-wee....

Some juss be like hunch me and go home...betta yet, we both can cause a "real" huncher knows not to take Tom, Dick, nor Harry to her house!

FYI---I am happily married and faithful

Just like everyone else said, there are so many women willing to settle for the BS and when they come upon a woman who isn't going for it they move on to someone who will.

Another reason why women back in the day were able to put fear in a nucca's heart is.....Uncle Essex wasn't about to have her locked up for the breakfast on the back.  Nowadays they ain't shame to call the Po Po on yo ass and have you sent up the river when they know damn well they provoked you to turn their backs into a hot platter.

 dat too, dat too!!!!  Men used to view the WOMAN as the PRIZE - now these mofos thinking THEY are the trophy!!!! 

"Men used to view the WOMAN as the PRIZE - now these mofos thinking THEY are the trophy!!!!"

So true!!!  I'm from the old school ways (hubby too) back when men were proud of how their (prized and cherished) wife was the one who drove the nicest car they owned, had nice things, dressed beautifully.  You saw their caring in how they treat and provide for the family.  Thankfully, there are still fellas out there like that, but they seem to be fewer & farther between.

In the last several years, I've seen MUCH more on the flipside: the guy driving that car, dressing better than her, having much to say about what their wife/SO is or is not "allowed" to do, etc., placing himself in a position of more importance and sadly, too many women accepting that (and MUCH MORE like paying the man's way in life) all so as 'not to be lonely'. 

I just don't understand it all.

Ohhhhhh!!!  PREACH!!!!! 

Now theoretcally I'm not supposed to be doing this but...  Well...  at any rate.  I know Imma start some shizz-nit here so y'all ladies go and get your game face on and just deal with the play.   Here goes:

It ain't so much that the game "done changed" (catch and release, cop 'n blow, hit it 'n quit it, etc...), but it's more that, the playas left on the field weren't all true players in the first place or necessarily and that goes for both sides of the fence (man and woman.) 

- Too many women are now whining pining for the days of "wine and romance" but know full well that they will SETTLE for a hot-pocket and cheap finga-fugg.

- Too many brothas are out running around more confused thanna maw-fuggah to even focus on uppin' their game.  "To down-low or not to down-low...?  Hmmm... That is the question"  NO!  That may or may not be the dayum the question, but here is the answer - If you gay, go be gay.  If you ain't, don't be.  Pick a fuggin' team, Jack Azz, and keep it movin.

- Too many groups of women getting together to bash and complain about the brothas - all the brothas (married, single, gay, straight, lite-skinndedid, or boot black) -  "Men ain't ****" but the only research that they bring to the table is, "See, I had heard...  Check it out right, my brother, uncle, cousin told me..." Hey try this **** on for size,  Username: Grumpy_in_my_Sealy Posturpedic, instead of just moanin and groanin try draggin' a wanna-be playa-playa by his ankles, kickin and screamin to the next "Sisterhood of the hot-in-the-pants" meeting or pow-wow and run your "how come..." questions at him.  Notice his demeanor, check out his inability to answer questions thoroughly, interview his azz as a whole, take some really good notes, and then make some decisions.

- Too many wanna-be playa-playas these days will dress the fugg up, roll the fugg up, and ack da fugg up, but won't man da fugg up.  Weed these doofuses out of the potential booty-call rolodex first.  How you gonna have a real relationship with a dude that ain't man enough to do **** for himself without your help?  How are you gonna be soooo dazzled by the d!ck when you been through the bull**** beforehand?

Holla atcha boy...  Wait this ain't my original post.  Nevermind that last part then.

  True.  You both make the same point actually.  In my opinion, women are settling for bad behavior.  We are so afraid of being alone (and too many of us ARE alone) that at times, it can drive a women to settle for less than she deserves and put up with some drama that she should have never tolerated!!  Accountability...we all need to take accountability.

To me, there are just not enough honest *****es and mutts....tell your SO or spouse...baby, I need to switch some schitt up....hubby/wife might want to switch up some schitt too! Mfer be happy that topic was brought up! Make it work for you...then all that creeping schitt can be eliminated and the game can be cancelled....everybody get their rocks knocked off.....lie back....sip on gin and smoke a damn newport with a smile on thurr damn face!