Relationship Question

You know what Faith I noticed that about you...

Good for you!!

I don't know rather to  or

Right now I will enjoy this virtual popcorn without having to feel guilty because of the carbs.

I ain't never been one to change my NAME or no **** like that behind a mofo - my FB status STILL says SINGLE.....

HOW-SOME-EVA - I have let a few reference comments slide and folk asked for details and I have told folk on the BL bout my bidness - but only as much as I WANTED them to know....

I have posted some GENERAL questions that mofos have INTERPRETED - but I DARE a mofo that I have NOT personally talked to on the BL or email to know my **** now!!!  Yall can make suppositions and guess - but dats it.

Now my ex - that's a different story - depending on how long you been around this mofo - you MIGHT know the WHOLE story - or you might not......

and hell - even my, umm,  "slip ups" are under wraps (xept for a few mofos that I will have put in OIL BARRELS if they open they dayum mouf!)

So - as for why talk about that **** - cause *I* am a crazy mofo and *I* sometimes need the perspective of other folk to know if I'm trippin or not..  Say what you will about that - I couldn't give two *****

Now - I NEVER do the TOTAL open book - never that - yall may THINK I'm tellin a lot - but trust and BELIEVE - I'm a calculated, cold **********a - so you never know everything you THINK I may be tellin..... I'm just sneaky like dat.  

So true Mack despite you being a open book person, you never put a mofo on a pedestal in a relationship.

hi all ~

I have wondered that very question in looking at social networking sites. i don't even have to be a friend to see all of someone's business just based on their name and status messages.
I'm a pretty private person, and have updated my relationship status on sites such as this when i became engaged, and when the engagement ended (lol) :)
As for my previous comment about knowing someone's business based on their names and messages, how do i know? It is more often than not directed to another female, who of course is going to direct her revelation to her close friends at the very least (yes, grown women are doing this).
I can understand happiness, but how often do you see a man with the screen name "TamekasDude"?

LMAO and @ "TamekasDude"

I wish a nicca WOULD....... LMAOOOOOO

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Rhonda,

If I may chime in....alot of times people like your friend announce the relationship beacause of their own feelings of inadequacy.   They feel that being in a relationship says  

Im valuable, 
Im love-able
Im special
Im beautiful.....

Its my experience that usually the ones screaming it the most...are the ones that questioned  those sentiments to  begin with.  The husband/boyfriend/partner is simply a prop in their stage performance.   They could be standing next to a monkey for heaven's sake in the pics. It wouldnt even matter.  

That is until they find out otherwise. Look how many women shout out my husband this, my husband that and go home to empty unfulfilled marriages most of the time.

Its not about the need to blab...its about the need to advertise or convince themselves and others of the fairytale. The real truth comes when you realize that you can be just as content by your lonesome. 

As always a very eloquent response Plum....