I will lie to myslef but not to you guys...

LEE
on 12/23/09 2:45 am

I'm sorry MBC

I hope you can begin to lose weight and get it off. I have gained again also but I keep my gaining to a minimum. I really hope you can get it together.

If you need to take baby steps then start taking baby steps, just make steps to get yourself moving back in the right direction.

Salty Pickle a.k.a. Lee

Mslayd02 aka Mrs.
Big_Cle
on 12/23/09 3:04 am - Durham, NC

RNY on 05/05/08

Lee, what I need is good swift kick in the butt!!!!! I need of those sista girl moments, where your friend grabs you and shakes and says GET IT TOGETHER GIRL!!

Dedee
on 12/23/09 3:02 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

They operated on our stomach...our intestines...not our brains.

WLS is more mental then it is physical. Physically, you have been given a tool to aide in your weight loss...mentally, you have to LEARN to, WANT to, work that tool.

What I mean by that is: for some exercise don't come easy, drinking 64oz of water don't come easy, eating healthy does not come easy...but if you don't mentally prepare for these thngs, your tool will work TEMPORARILY!....

I will say it again...BAF...there is nothing WRONG with consulting a pyschiatrist/phychologist.

You just may learn WHY you have an eating addiction and learn ways to cure it!

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

Mslayd02 aka Mrs.
Big_Cle
on 12/23/09 3:07 am - Durham, NC

RNY on 05/05/08

Dedee, you are right!! I didn't take the opportunity while my body was basically loosing on its on to get my mind right. Now that I have to put forth more effort, I am having a hard time.

Glamazon
on 12/23/09 5:13 am, edited 12/23/09 5:14 am - Mesa, AZ

Lap Band on 10/23/06

Firstly, no judgement, just love. We have all backslid at some time or another. So, don't beat yourself up. It's 6 lbs. Not 1000! Go back to the basics. Protein first, excellent eating behavior (ie: portion control, no eating and drinking at the same time, mindful eating, chewing properly, putting the fork down, healthy food choices) water loading, working out, and staying in a positive mindset.

Jevon, you can do this girl. You have the right mindset, the right heart, the right tools and we are all here to cheer you on your journey!!!!

Love is all there is, ever was or ever will be...

CattG
on 12/23/09 9:57 pm

RNY on 11/04/09

I'm glad you posted this. It gives me a reality check and reminds me that I can never forget to be conscious of my decisions. Wishing you lots of luck!!

(deactivated member)
on 12/23/09 11:05 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA

RNY on 09/15/04

Congratulations Jevon! You are keeping things in check by making yourself consciously aware that you might be slipping. Best to recognize it early before you get to a full blown relapse. Good for you and continued success with this journey!

MSW will not settle
on 12/24/09 7:29 am

I can get obsessive about tracking (like everyone did not already know that). But the benefit is always knowng exactly what's happening. No room to rationalize how you think you're doing vs reality.

I'm glad you are determined to get with the program again. Us early out folks need the reminder that we can make a cluster fkcu of it all. However, we never have to let things get out of control in the first place.

Destiny Fulfilled
on 12/25/09 5:59 pm - Washington, DC

RNY on 01/07/08

Please Please call me. Send me a BL message!!!

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Destiny_Fulfilled~

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