I know hate is a strong word so I will use dislike

OMG...I so can relate to what you are saying.  I don't want to be a size 2.  I am just happy I am not where I was.  I am a sz 14 and I am 5 feet 8.  I want to only get to a 10 or 12 and I am good with it.  I  don't want to look anorexic, I just want to look healthy.  I have some people tell me that I need to stop.  They don't understand I was a size 28 before and want to get to my goal of a 10/12 and maintain.  Even if I lost 20 more pounds, I am still too heavy on the BMI chart! LOL.  So with that said, you have to look at what makes sense to you.  Being a size 0-4 may work if you are 5 feet or less.  But it sure in hell is not going to work for me.