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Hi, nice to have you.
I think the most important thing is that this is hard work. You have to be dedicated or it won't work. Surgery isn't a quick fix, yes it will help you lose weight but it's a tool and you have to work the tool or it won't continue to work. It will be exactly like everything else you've done (and me and everyone who does surgery since it's usually a last resort!) and it could end up working for like a year and then not if you don't work the tool.
And what I mean by working the tool is eating correctly - tracking what you're eating and following the guidelines exactly. Eating protein forward, drinking water, and getting your vitamins. These are all key. It's possible to have the surgery and eat things quick things from a grocery store like deli meat, beef jerky, frozen fish, etc and be successful but unless you're rich I don't think anyone is going to be preparing your meals for you.
So I would take that into consideration - I would not want to do the surgery if I wasn't serious about putting the effort into it long term.
I'm only 18 months out but I haven't regretted my decision for a second.
Good luck.

Melinda
HW: 377 SW: 362 CW:131
TOTAL LOSS: 249 pounds
Hi Everyone. I am new to the site. I am 24 years old and have two sons ages 6 and 1. I have struggled with my weight my whole life. I weighed 120 in 4th grade, 140 in 8th grade, 190 after my first child, and now am at my highest weight of around 250-260. after my second child I started 21 day fix. I lost about 11 pounds in 2 weeks. Then I fell off the wagon due to difficulty staying on top of exercising and meal prepping while trying to car for two children, work full time and keep up with house work. Then I started some diet pills. I lost about 16 pounds in 2 weeks and then fell off the wagon again. Since. I have gained back the weight I lost each time. I am at a BMI of 50 and do not want to continue on the path of continually gaining weight or yoyo weight loss. I think one of the hardest parts for me is that I am picky and I don't have a lot of time to prepare. I feel like if I had someone that could just make my meals and provide them I would do fine because it would cut out all the tedious work. I am considering variate if surgery, but have not yet spoke to my doctor. Things I am looking for.....
- Any advice such as meal tips or plans for weight loss.
- First hand information on bariatric surgery, recovery time, success, and challenges.
- If you had surgery, would you recommend it or would you change your decision.
- Any other information you think might be helpful.
I have been playing bouncy, bouncy, bouncy with my weight +/- 4-5lbs....in a week.... which I guess could be normal in maintenance, but I don't like it...because my bouncy, bouncy is at the higher end of what I like.... For awhile I was staying consistently 165/166 liked that much better. Would feel better if I was bouncing in the 163-168 5lb range. not 165-170.... It all starts in our head, right? At almost 400lbs, +/- 5lbs made no difference, now it makes a difference.....
Highest: 420+
Consult: 383
Last week 168
This week: 168
Goal- Back steady at 165 in maintenance
Cynthia 5'11" RNY 7/23/2014
Goal reached 17 months. 220lb Weight Loss
Plastic Surgery Dr. Joseph Michaels - LBL and Hernia Repair 2/29/16, Arm Lift, BL, 5/2/16, Leg Lift 7/25/16
#lifeisanadventure #fightthegoodfight #noregrets
Good for you! I set lots of 'mini-goals' along the way to keep myself motivated. Didn't alway**** them, but I really think it helped.
Cynthia 5'11" RNY 7/23/2014
Goal reached 17 months. 220lb Weight Loss
Plastic Surgery Dr. Joseph Michaels - LBL and Hernia Repair 2/29/16, Arm Lift, BL, 5/2/16, Leg Lift 7/25/16
#lifeisanadventure #fightthegoodfight #noregrets
Nice!
Cynthia 5'11" RNY 7/23/2014
Goal reached 17 months. 220lb Weight Loss
Plastic Surgery Dr. Joseph Michaels - LBL and Hernia Repair 2/29/16, Arm Lift, BL, 5/2/16, Leg Lift 7/25/16
#lifeisanadventure #fightthegoodfight #noregrets
High weight: 310
Last week's weight: 276.4
This week's weight: 270.2
6.2 loss in one week. Work. Increased protein, water, and my workouts. Met my goal for the month.
Goal weight 1: 233
Goal weight 2: 170

High weight:310
Mo 1: 30
High weight - 337
Last week - 195.9
This week - 195.8
Next goal: 185; BMI

5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI
HW 297
SW 286
TW 204
7 months post op - VSG

HW - 297 SW - 286 CW - 204 GW - 150
VSG on 2/23/16 with Dr. Averbach
I normally only weigh on Monday but I weighed again on Wed just to see and I lost that pound and an extra one so I'm guessing water weight. But I only count my weight on Mondays so we'll see.
First gain in 18 months- that's so impressive.

RNY Jan 12, 2017 Lost 137 lbs but regained 82.
68 lbs lost and counting!
Losing the regain! I got this!