OT: I am so mad I could spit nails right now!!!

Grrrrrrrr, I can't think I am so mad right now, so if I ramble, just ignore me.  I need to get this off my chest, and this is just about the only way I can, just put it in print.  The other day, my DH tells me that he is being "kidnapped" this evening.......with some of HIS friends from work.  Mind you now, we work at the same freaking place, and have the same friends. It is just that his are on nights and mine are on days.  Anyway, this evening, I am taking a friend home when I call him to let him know what I am doing. He tells me to "hurry up......they are here to kidnapp me now, and I am holding them up!" That was the wrong thing to tell me, but I let it go....... Then, on my way home, I happened to hit a deer.....a small one, and it just bounced off the front end of the car, but none the less I hit the darn thing.  So, when I walk in the door, he already has his coat on, and was waiting at the door for me.  When I told him that I hit the deer, he was only worried about the car, he didn't give a rats a$$ if I was hurt or not.  So when I told him that I was pi$$ed, and let our friend know that I was pi$$ed to for not being even invited, he just looked at me and said, 'Oh well, you will get over it!" and walked out the door! I even told the guy that was waiting for him that it really ****** me off that he had the nerve to just walk out the door, especially when I was talking to him. I said that all of my friends include Jimmy in our activities, but NOOOOO, I am not included in anything to do with "night shift crew"! Talk about a slap in the face.....I have worked all day long, and this is the treatment I get this evening.  I just feel like taking a drive and going until I run out of gas this evening, I am so mad. I haven't been this mad in years, and I feel that I have ever reason to be this way tonight. If I had a way to change the locks right now, I would! I am fuming, and it is going to take me a bit to get over this. Sorry I have rambled on, but I just needed to get this off my chest. I probably won't be on much this evening.....since I am in such a foul mood.  If you can't find me on here, just message me if you feel up to chatting. I may later.

   Oh girl I know how you feel. Let's just say the hubby didn't do that to me again. I let him have it and didn't hold back on him at all. You just need to remind him that if you did that he would be so mad that he would have flame coming out of his ears. Just try and calm down because you need to focus on the future of BEING SKINNY and then let his mouth water and then say You'll get over it>>>>> LOL Keep your head up and I'm here to listen if you need somone to listen.

(( hugs )) sorry your having a bad night!!! I'll be round if you wanna vent pm me and we can go into chat or something.

I AM SORRY HE IS ACTING LIKE A BUTT HEAD BUT MEN ARE THAT WAY SOMETIMES,  RIGHT NOW YOU HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT YOU GETTING HEALTHY, HE MAY NOT KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU ARE GETTING READY TO DO , I KNOW JIM WAS A BIT STRANGE AT FIRST WE HAD A LONG TALK AND I TOLD HIM I AM NOT GOING ANYWHERE AFTER THIS AND IT SEEM TO HELP . JUST GETT O MAD AT HIM AFTER ALL HE IS " JUST A MAN" IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK I CHECK HERE ALL THE TIME CONTACT ME . VICKI

Thanks for all the words of encouragement.  I went along with my theory.   I don't get mad, I get even!!!!   Needless to say, I bet Jimmy doesn't do anything like this ever again!!!!!

You get even??  So, are you going to tell us what you did to Jimmy???  I hope things are a little better for you today.

I contacted the couple that held the party, and proceded to let them have an ear-full.  I don't give a darn if I DO work with them. I bet the got the picture after I was finished, thats for sure.  I haven't heard any more from them, and I really don't give a damn either. My mood has gotten worse since I went to work, so I don't see me having much of a good evening with the mess that happened.  Hope yours is better.

Ok...not much into drama esp when I dont even know the ppl involved but I cant help but ask since u got us involved in the drama by posting it...lol  Its like watching a soap opera...u dont want to miss the next episode. ....what kind of revenge did u get on your husband...inquiring minds want to know????

The embarassment from what I said to the other couple. He still has to work with them at night, and he will have to see them and know that he was wrong.  Of course, I also had the silent treatment toward him for more than 24 hours!  That always kills him!