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Dave, You're lucky that you can have a lap RNY......mine had to be open because of the open surgery (which is all they did then) I had 11 yrs. ago.
The post-op lifestyle changes are not always easy, but it is worth it. I'm still dealing with them alot of the time. I just got back from Florida with my 2 sister-in-laws. We visited one of their daughter's. They stopped at Dairy Queen and got ice cream one day. Of course I love Snicker Blizzards! I shouldn't have had any ice cream, but I got a kid's size cup of ice cream, and didn't eat it all. After a certain point I don't think it hurts to do that once in awhile, but not to do it often. Next Monday it will be 12 weeks since my surgery. For the most part I'm doing great sticking to the eating plan. While I was gone I took a bite of something here or there of things I shouldn't have yet, but I didn't have much. I still lost 6 more lbs. Drinking cokes is still something that I'd really like to do, but since I went to Clarian, it's a no-no. St. Vincent's I think is a little more liberal on that. After a certain amount of time (6 months or 1 yr.) I've heard that they let you drink diet cokes again, but Clarian doesn't because they say that you can enlarge your pouch by drinking carbonated drinks. You are right that most people have no clue what we deal with. It was nice talking to you and good luck on your surgery. Don't forget to let us all know how you're doing after your surgery. Candy