I don't know what I'm doing!

I don't have any idea what I'm doing, as a mother, right now. Or so it feel like. I have found a place for residential treatment for my son, Mikey. He's just not doing any better. We don't know what to do for him. It's all the way in Jeffersonville though! Argh. At a place called Wellstone. Which is supposed to be run by the same company as Meadows, but I don't know much about it. YEsterday I collected all kinds of records from his doctors, school, etc., and faxed them to the hospital, to see if he could be admitted. But I feel like a traitor to him, like I'm trying to get rid of him, or something. Atleast that's what I'm afraid he will think of us. I just wish this all would be easier to know what to do.

Linda..I don't have any answers for you..just wanted to say how sorry I am you're feeling so frustrated and probably alone too. It can feel so overwhelming when you're so unsure. I offer my prayers for you..that's about all I can do..I believe strongly in the power of prayer by the way..I'm really good at praying!

Thanks, Kathleen. It is overwhelming.

I've seen you post several times about your son but I don't exactly nkow what's going on with him. DO you mind my asking? I know it's so hard regardless of the situation to know what's the right choice. I am sure you will know in your heart and it will be the best. praying for you and your family at this time!

He's been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and ADHD. He's having serious problems at home and school.

Hello.  Just wanted to let you know that I think that there is a group home for young people in Vermillion County.  I can't recall the name of it at the moment, but I believe it is for children with ADHD, bioplar etc.  I will look at work tomorrow to check on the name.  In  case I forget, (if you are interested), please email me at work to remind me.  [email protected] KIM

oh Linda You are a good mom You are doing whats best for your baby. Maybe this will work and he can be so much better. I am a mother of 3 boys and it breaks my heart to read your post. But remember you have to do what you thinkis best for Mikey and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda, Unfortunately I do know exactly what you are going through as I have a bipolar child that had to go into residential treatment as well.  I know the feeling of being a traitor but I came to realize that keeping my child at home was putting her at risk.  She was in inpatient care for 4 weeks and finally the Dr. convinced me that to keep her safe and help her be healthier she needed long term residential care.  It was not only better for her but better for the rest of the family as well.  I feel like during that time my other children took a backseat to my attention and care.   Hang in there.  I am continuing to remember you in prayer as I am sure others here are as well.  Peg

I feel that a GOOD mother will go to any lengths to help her children! I know it is tough but I feel that you are doing the right thing. It may not seem like it to you right now but in the long run you will be glad you did it. You are in my prayers.

Linda I could agree more with the other ladies about you being an excellent mom. The fact that it pains you to even think about having him hospitalized shows that you care that much more. (( HUGS )) for you sweetie.