Me & Bill

Some of you on here have been very sweet in offering to keep Bill & I in your prayers...and I do appreciate it. I got an email a few minutes ago however that just really ticks me off!!! It was from someone who I had BLOCKED from here and yet, somehow had managed to read my posts about Bill. How she managed to do that, I don't know. She claims she isn't on OH anymore but either she is and under a whole new name or someone who is on here is keeping her informed of our posts. So...just in case it is the latter, here is a little bit about the situation with me & Bill just so you both have your facts straight!                              Bill has been a very bitter man every since he lost the majority of his vision in 2000. If I didn't love him, I would not be with him. He has put me through hell because of his bitterness to losing his eyesight. I understand that, but it does not make it right. He even put me through hell the day after I was woken from the coma in October. I had done nothing to cause it. I have done nothing TO GOD to cause it. So QUIT emailing me and telling me how I need to repent to God! Get off your pulpit! I don't need an mediator between me & God. I am just as capable as you are to talk to him! And trust me, if I didn't have regular conversations with God, I would not have been able to stay with Bill for as long as I have. YOUR situation is NOTHING like mine!                  To my harrasser: I am going through enough without getting any crap from you! Leave me the hell alone! And if someone is supplying this person with information about me, STOP! Do you really want to be a troublemaker just because others are?  And if ANYONE would like a copy of these coorespondance, contact me, I'll be glad to share it with you! I think you all should be aware of how much of a troublemaker this person is!      Sherri

Sherri- I am so sorry that you are having to go through this! I continue to keep both you and Bill in my thoughts and prayers! Things at my home are difficult as well, I understand! I haven't been on much and haven't been making phone calls either, for taht fact as I am trying to straighten out some underlying issues as well! Just wanted you to know that I am hoping for better outcomes for many of us! I also am thinking of you- You had mentioned before about calling you during the day and it was better to not call in the evening! I am working during the day and am not allowed to use my cell at the school! If you have time and need to chat in the evening, please call me, k? Thinking of ya, and hoping for the best! Hugz Dawn

'this person' had sent an email claiming that her pastor thought her judgemental email to me was just wonderful so I asked for his name & number. This is the response I got: whatever Sherri. I want your husband's name and number. Oh wait... nevermind I have it. Get over yourself. You are so ungrateful and don't know a good then when it is in front of your face. I don't need your approval or anything. I just wanted to help. And you did ask several times on the public board for prayers and help. So again don't put it in the public if you don't want the public in your business.   In Him, *****                                      I do believe when I block someone that means that it is none of their business what my business is!! And to those few who thought 'this person' was A-OK, send her YOUR husband's contact information. Share with her YOUR marital issues. In other words, you think it's ok the way she behaves, let it be YOUR life she meddles in. Sherri

Sherri, Good Grief....what did you ever do to her???  Sounds like she just wants to cause trouble.  Just keeps saying...It will get Better!!!!  I think I mutter that all day! Robin

it always amazes me how someone can think their way of talking to god is better than someone else's way. you know the greatest thing about god...i can close my eyes and say anything in any language with any kind of words or thoughts or deeds...and he hears it. you know, that's pretty much part of god's job description. anyone who thinks you need a mediator or a human savior or a person to help clarify your relationship with god needs to rethink their own relationship with him. i can't stand crazy bible thumpers for the mere fact that they are the ones that need to be thumping themselves with their own bible for spreading their hate and predjudice around. give me someone who wants to share his word and deeds, and i'll listen and agree. give me someone who thinks they are better than me because they stand up and scream out their faith for all to see and obey their actions and imitate them makes me highly irritable. remember the story that jesus told about the 2 men praying in the synagogue. one man stood in the center on stage for all to see and screamed his prayers and tore his clothing putting on a show for all to see. the other man knelt down and whispered his prayers and conversed with only god. god heard both prayers, but he was pleased with the humble man and granted his forgiveness. that in and of itself should be everyone's motto. and sherri, my thoughts are with you. relationships are difficult things. i hope your problems are resolved peacefully and quickly.

I learned from the main boards that if someone logs out or does not log in they can read posts by those who have blocked them or whatever. Apparently some of the my surgery is better than yours drama addicts have been using that approach to find out what people are saying about them or whatever. Sherri - I am keeping you and Bill in my prayers. I've not posted a whole lot lately but I've been reading and I'm so sorry. My dad started getting really bitter when his health was failing and was doing everything he could to push us away, I'm guessing it was because he thought it would hurt less when he passed away. It didn't and we knew he still loved us he was just mad at life. (( HUGS )) for you

Hi Sherri, Sorry to here that you are still getting communications from people you no longer wish to communicate with.  You would think they would get the hint.  But I wouldn't even bother to open e-mails from people you don't want to hear from anymore.  They can only affect you if you let them, so just don't let them.  If you get an e-mail or personal message - just delete it unopenned.  Everytime you respond, whether it is on the board or by e-mail, it just gives them the attention they are so obviously craving.  You don't need the stress!  Give me a call anytime.  I'll be happy to just listen.

Jeesh Sherri, I am sorry you are having to go thru all this crap. Especially right now.  I cant believe she is starting stuff again.  I thought all that was over. Hugs to you!

hey babydoll....i have no idea who this is bothering you...or even want to know her....just wanted to say....i am here for you! ...isn't it god's place to judge??? not hers....take the high road ...i am not sure why she would even bother you....if i was ignored by someone ...i would get the hint! just smile push past her ignorance....and put your worries in gods hands....relax and this will get better...prayers from my family to yours bigs hugs Kim

Sherri...it sound like Linda has no life and that she has too much free time on her hands. How sad for her.......As for her minister....perhaps he did not get all the facts and if he did...perhaps he needs to re-evaluate his practice of Christianity and ministering.  I am sorry that she has attacked you and Bill for voiceing your cares and concerns on here. I thought that was wht this forum was all about?!  My boyfriend of 22 years is also having declining health problems and has become very abusive verbally...but I know him and I know this is not him talking...its his frustration of not being able to change his ultimate outcome which will be death within a year. I am sorry she has taken all this and twisted it into something she can use as ammunition.