My car got hit again!!

Fri I had a asthma/panic attack at work & had to be driven home (i rode my motorcycle in) Then after seeing the dr I took my daughter to her boyfriends.  I had a girlfriend with me. I am parked a carlink and a half away from anyone in his drive way. as my daughter was getting out of the backseat. We got hit in the frount end. I didn't know whether to puke, cry or pass out!! How anyone can put their car in reverse and not look behind them is beyond me. So now I have more damage and it agravated a neck condition a already deal with. I have been in so much pain in adition to dealing with my asthma. John had to take me to er last night. this am was spent at the chiropractor & Dr.. I have been under so much stress lately (problems with SO) its making everything hard to deal with. I use to eat my feelings since surgery exercise was helping but since the asthma flareup (last 3wks) i haven't been able to do that. I may need to go back on my antidepressants. On a good note I have lost another 7lbs this week I am now at 180!!!!! Today I got size 18 jeans because the 24 were to big I couldn't beleive that the 20 were to big. Yeah me after losing 161 lbs I can finally wear smaller pants!! If it weren't for all the loose skin I definatly be in smaller sizes! the size 16 tops are getting big also. I need to find good shape ware my legs are very small but my stomache hangs halfway to my knees especially down right leg. It is causing me alot of back pain.  Sherri could you send me info on you ps. I want someone that will try to get insurance to pay. It is the only way that I will be able todo anything soon. I hope that maybe in Jan of Feb I can have surgery. I'm thinking maybe of renting a cabin at the campground if anyone would be interested in sharing let me know. Love to everyone.

Cheryl, Geeze girl- do you have a "HIT ME" sign on your car     ??? This is unreal!!!I hate it for you, 'cause i know you love that car!!! I hope your asthma gets under control soon- it is no fun to get sick in summer. My grandson has it, & i know how rough it is.  I am sooooo excited for you- size 18-woo~hoo!!!! You are doing wonderful- and I KNOW the plastics get on board so you can stop all those backaches. (((hugs))) Ellen

Hi Ellen, I know what you mean about the sign I looked I'm sure there is no bulleye. It is just heartbeaking. My daughter Meghan thinks I should sell it when it is fixed she thinks it is jinxed lol. Love Cheryl

#1 I am just glad you were not on your motorcycle when you were hit.. I understand these freak accidents.. I was waiting for a parking space one time and the person came out.. saw me got into her car and backed right into me!! HELLO... she saw me right there!! Didnt even look in the rearview mirror.. I am so parinoid I am looking constantly when backing out of a space and she didnt even look once!!  Get better soon....Linda Kay

Linda Kay, I'm getting very paranoid driving my car now lol. I'm just glad I was't on the bike either. My neck is really giving me fits now I tried to go to work today. I only was able to last 4hrs. Maybe I will do better tomorrow.  Cheryl

awwww sweetheart...i am so sorry you are having such a bad time....it always frustrated me when people would say...it gets better....but it does! just keep smiling...try not to let this get the best of you....on a good note...congrats on the smaller clothes! 7 lbs .this week..you are rockin at the weightloss...i have hit a lil stall i think....well i still lose just a lil slower these past few weeks.... i will keep ya in my prayers babes!  big hugs  Kim

Kim, I know what you mean It will get better I won't say it can't get any worse because we all know what happens then lol. I hit a huge stall and now the wt loss is just dropping like crazy. I think it just takes time for our bodys to catch up.  Thanks for the prayers I need all I can get Love Cheryl

Cheryl, What incredible bad luck that car is having! I'm sorry it's getting you so stressed out. Remember, it is ONLY a car (even if it is the car of your dreams). I hope the chiro & doctor was able to get you some relief. My plastic surgeons info is: Debra Bergman, MD at Carmel Cosmetic & Plastic Surgeons. Phone # 317-581-0001. To get there, you go to the 1st light south of St. Vincent Carmel onto West Carmel Drive & turn left (east). She is located ~2 blocks east of Meridian at the SE corner of West Carmel & Old Meridian. Here's her website:  http://www.carmelcosmeticsurgeons.com/index.php                 I would love for you get a cabin!! A whole weekend of visiting with you! YAY!!              Sherri

Sherri,  I know it is just a car & can be fixed it is just the straw that broke the camels back........John & I are going through a very rocky patch. And now with the physical pain along with the emotions I'm at my breaking point. I use to eat my emotions away the past year I've use excersize now due to not being able to breathe I havn't been able to do that. So I'm not handling things very well. It's just a day at a time sometimes and 1hour at a time. Thank you for the info I'm excited about this next step I'm ready but my pocketbook isn't. Can't wait to see you again Cheryl

Awe hon, if you ever want to get away for the weekend, we have a futon you are welcome to. Sometimes, taking a step back helps a great deal. Of course,  a weekend of girl-talk wouldn't hurt either, huh? Sherri