I hate to appear stupid but....
Brenda, No such thing as a stupid question! :o) I asked the same thing of a friend and she told me to create a free email account thru yahoo, hotmail, gmail or any other free service email and I can call it anythng I like. So that should work for you too! No one will know who you are by your secret name! I need to get busy and do that myself to let my person know their elf hasn't forgot them!
Hugs to you!
Marianne