I need a Buddy.....

Hello all of Indiana.....

I hope someone reads this and gets this overwhelming feeling to respond.

I need someone who can help me get back on track.  I know that I should be able to do this on my won, but lately I am really struggling.  I am busy everyday trying to push my fluids, vitamins, and protein, and really trying to up my excerise.  I am failing miserable at all right now.  Not sure if it is just how busy everything seems to be or what.  I WILL be a success at this and WILL get to goal.......

I guess what I am pleading for is someone who can stay in touch with me personally and help me stay motivated to keep on track........I do not want to fail at this......I feel like a total failure, i guess maybe the roots of my issues are deeper than I want to admit......anyone who is willing to deal with me.....just let me know.

Love,
Holly

Holly,
 I am right with you- sooooo ,lets support each other!!!! I need accountablity as well, and would love to be your buddy! PM me, and we will get started TODAY!
Love ya, (((((big hugs)))))
Ellen

Hey girls want to make it a threesome?  I'm right there with you.  I've been stalled out for a year and put on 15 pounds.  I have to go see Dr Evanson in two weeks and I hate to because I feel I've failed.  I need and want to get back on track also.  Too many bad habits creaping back in.  So can I join you also? I've fallen off my horse and need to get back on.

Going to work today- but pm. me girls- lets get back on our horses & ride!
(((big hugs)))

I think we all need a buddy..I am thanking God for Melissa her stuggles.. wow moments etc are keeping me thinking.. I am NOT perfect... I just want to be alive for so much more...

Getting fat for me was not just a food issue... except for the fact I used food to make the heart feel better...Numbing the pain of ANYTHING is not the answer..

Good luck with your personal quest.

Linda Kay

I am right in there with you. How about we help each other!

Holly, hon, I know you are so afraid of failing.  You have come this far already, and didn't fail, so you can do this!!!

As far as being accountable, we all are able to stand by each other, so lets work on this together as a team!  On the KY board, which I post on often as well, they have a daily accountability thread for your food and excercise for each day.  What do you think of us doing that as well on here, so we can try to help each other thru the visual support on the monitor.  If we see each other's post on what we eat and how we excercise, that may help us stay on track.  I am not saying that I am perfect in any way about my meals, and right at this moment, excercise has been out of the questions, but if we all see each other every day, maybe that will help to remind ourselves of why we are on here now, and why we had wls in the beginning.  Just a suggestion.  Please let me know what you think. 

 

I will also send you messages on your phone, if that is ok with you.  I love getting text messages from my friends, so feel free to text me any time!!!  My cell number is on the directory.  That goes for anyone else as well!  PLEASE feel free to text away!!!  I will reply!

LaChelle.....I will pm and text you.....I just got back from a bike ride, going to hit the sac....and will get with everyone first thing in the morning.  Thanks to everyone who has replied......

It sounds like you're going to have some great buddies. I just wanted to pipe in,.. if you think you have some deeper issues, why not explore talking to a counselor or psychologist? I had to do that for my surgery (along with attending support groups), and found it to really help.