OT: family wants to put our dog to sleep bc of incontinence! need advice :(

thank you to all of you for your support and suggestions...  i was so upset from having to defend her for so long and i just didn't know what to do.  i had tried every line of reasoning with my family and just came to the conclusion that i'm so glad i wasn't born handicapped.
the doggy diapers i had bought for her before weren't working, but i just found kind of a full-body diaper online which i will buy today (and put on rush delivery!) to try and ease the conflict at home.  it got to the point that they were trying to get me to quit my job so i could stay home with her all day because they weren't willing to help out... ugh; the whole thing makes me sick.  i really appreciate all of your advice, though, and will pursue every possible avenue. i just somehow knew that this would be the right place to turn for support! a million thanks again, sarah