Mui Bueno to Cabin111 (Brian)
I'm probably the biggest prude on the Men's Forum but I do look it over a few times a day (if possible). The open man to man support far outweighs any crudity that may be here. I'm glad that one of our members had pointed out that we can adjust our user settings and I chose the more restrictive one.
I'm now in my late 50s but I don't know if I'm any wiser than many of the younger men on this forum. And, I've mentioned in the past that men's personal preferences or traits have no bearing here. All we want is to have men who want or have had WLS to join us. It's just that simple.
Let's face it. We live in the real world. If a post offends you, just skip it and go on to the next one.
we also owe a big thanks to guys like baja and scott (former sheriff). you know, the sad truth is that we have to be mean and shut the door so hard on women posting here to keep them from trying to come back or even reply. they just give up and that's only because of the efforts of the guys here to go out of their way to be ugly about it. i mean it's the only way to keep our board for ourselves. i just posted about the lightweight board. one post and i was already offending someone. jeez.
i try to come here a lot so we don't lose this incredible source. like Dx, it seemed kind of sparse in the beginning. i was not here then but it wasn't like it is now when even i first started posting. so for some of you who are new and can't phathom why we hit so hard when we are intruded upon, it's because that's what it takes to keep garbage and manure off this board. believe me, they are just waiting to take this board over any chance they get.
so it takes huge guts to go out trolling for new members on this board. i'm sure brian gets crap everytime he tries to simply tell others we're here. i know it burned out Dx. i couldn't do it and maintain my manners or cool. so thanks for getting the word out and taking the hits just so to let others know. and again for you new guys, if we seem awfully harsh to women posting here, we have to make it so distastful they never want to come back or try to fight. so do us all a favor, circle the wagons whether you like it or not and let the next unwanted poster know to stay out. we don't want to hear about how crude we were to the poster or how over the top we are. we're trying to keep our site to ourselves. of course we'll help a legit poster but for the most part those women respect our space and deserve our help when they ask. they know it's our own spot. sorry, just still worked up over the lightweight thing! thanks you guys......carbonblob
i try to come here a lot so we don't lose this incredible source. like Dx, it seemed kind of sparse in the beginning. i was not here then but it wasn't like it is now when even i first started posting. so for some of you who are new and can't phathom why we hit so hard when we are intruded upon, it's because that's what it takes to keep garbage and manure off this board. believe me, they are just waiting to take this board over any chance they get.
so it takes huge guts to go out trolling for new members on this board. i'm sure brian gets crap everytime he tries to simply tell others we're here. i know it burned out Dx. i couldn't do it and maintain my manners or cool. so thanks for getting the word out and taking the hits just so to let others know. and again for you new guys, if we seem awfully harsh to women posting here, we have to make it so distastful they never want to come back or try to fight. so do us all a favor, circle the wagons whether you like it or not and let the next unwanted poster know to stay out. we don't want to hear about how crude we were to the poster or how over the top we are. we're trying to keep our site to ourselves. of course we'll help a legit poster but for the most part those women respect our space and deserve our help when they ask. they know it's our own spot. sorry, just still worked up over the lightweight thing! thanks you guys......carbonblob
Hey Guys,
I just have to say that I work with all women and there is nobody that can be cruder than a bunch of women, especially when they are no longer on their good behavior. I can tell you women tell many more details about sex and relationships then guys do! One of the women I work with swears so fluently that she could make a biker blush.
Jim