Good for the Goose?

Amen Dave couldn't say it better! It takes a big person to share these private matters in the attempt to let another hey I've been there but there's light at then end of the tunnel. As far as maturity hell I think you better sweep around your back door before pointing at your neighbors house. Hope not 2 C'ya Bob, or as my friend named me Rocky Top!!!! 

OK, I don't post a lot, but I feel that this forum is my support group. I feed off the successes and learn from the trials and tribulations of others so that I can succeed.

You want to come in here and judge someone who is only trying to apply his real life struggles to help another and start some **** I say hell no! Why don't you go somewhere else and troll... I and hundreds of others need these guys to give us reality checks so that we know that we're not alone in what we have gone through/are going through.

The fact that you took the time to do this shows you are a very shallow person. Maybe you need to look inward before casting stones at people.

Besides, as it has been said before, this is a men's forum, go back to tuna town with your drama.

You are talking complete apples and oranges. The post by Boner was in reply to a very heartfelt post. Boner was using his experiences in order to help another human being. This was a very touching and heartfelt series of posts.  I think you need to find a little compassion. The women's post seemed to just make fun of their anatomy - not trying to council a hurt friend.  I try to stay out of these things but this post was say out of line - no comparison.  You have shown your ignorance in the argument.

Take your gripe up with the person who put the post up via a pm. You should have gone directly to the source,but no you had to throw up a post of a completely uninvolved party.  A lot of guys post here because they feel safer amongst the men of this forum. This could really do some harm to some innocent parties. You need to think before you type.

Hey lady.  Don't go away mad, just go away!  Boner is the g-d of all that is healthy and you have flappy snatch-lips.  Something is missing in this picture, just like you should be missing from the locker room.  Get a life and possibly rethink about posting about snatches on the internet if you don't want the attention.

Terry put it out there, in the MEN'S FORUM, by sharing a personal experience, to HELP SOMEONE, to let him know that others have been there, and that it is possible to overcome such things, and to let him know he cares and understands. He was reaching out, offering support and encouragement to another human being by sharing a personal embarassment that he did not have to divulge.  That takes guts, and I commend him for it.

I usually try to be a gentleman, but this one chapped my butt!!
SO SCREW OFF!! 

I certainly agree that there is an apples/oranges situation here. On the other hand, I've been mostly lurking around here and often find myself put off by the seemingly misogynistic tone taken here. Referring to other forums as "tuna town" is one example that sort of ruffles my feathers. Don't get me wrong, I'm just as happy to find an estrogen-free zone as the next guy, but some of the posts here do get borderline offensive in their references to women in general.

Just a pair of pennies.

You know I just never cease to be amazed at how someone can devalue honesty....

and a troll is a troll is a troll....

So, if you gonna act like a troll, I'll treat you like a troll...

Just who are you kidding with that 40.9 BMI...

See you are still pre-op...best thing for you to be pre-op..you would just bring down our over all success rate....

Believe me, I know you are starved for mens attention...you sure ain't starved for food....

you want round 2 I got more...

Hit the bricks.

Amen, amen!!  I am not prone to be verbose when a woman posts here, especially when she is looking for help.  In this case, she and her who-haa are looking for a fight.  Picking a fight with Boner on this board is just like picking a fight with Paul or Dx.  When someone messes with the glue that holds us together, we need to make that bond even stronger.

 Lou

Dude, I get your anger. But maybe he's got a (very small) point. I found the threads on the main forum eye-rollingly vapid, so I was happy to find the men's forum. But that doesn't mean we can't show women respect in general.
Sure, when one of them with a 'tude comes on to our turf and tries to play momma, then load it up with buckshot and fire both barrels.
But for everyone of these Vagina Monologuers, there are dozens who are the kind of women due respect. Those women are loving wives, mothers, friends.
Don't let the true, few denizens of Tuna Town (equivalent of any big city's dogtown) overshadow that, right?
But in the case of this female, she stuck her arse out there in the wrong place and deserved getting a few size-18 workboots inserted.

Hey Carol aintlean....do you also go into mens rooms at restaurants, airports and rest areas??? If you are gonna get  offended by what your gonna see in there...stay the hell out!! Don't come in where you are not wanted or invited!! Boner had the balls (does that offend you too??) to relate a very embarassing time in his life to help another MAN....we all look to guys like him in here for help and inspiration! Next time MYOB and stay with the rest of the nagging pain in the asses in tuna town!!!