When Cute, Younger Gals Start Paying For Your Meals Anonymously ..
.. does that mean I'm getting kinda buff, or what? 
I never had anything like this happen before, so I'm bouncing it off you guys to see what you think ...
I was eating out earler tonight after work at one of my fav local Mexican eateries .. When I went to leave and pay my check, the server informed me that my tab had already been paid.
I was almost scared to ask, but got up the nerve and asked, "by whom?" The server pointed at an empty booth that had been occupied earlier and said, "those two gals that were sitting there." 
I was stunned. Those two gals were two much younger, kinda cute gals (one was actually pretty hot 
) .. I never even made eye contact with them though (the hot one was sitting with her back mostly to me from my adjacent table 
). I did kinda check them out with my eyes when they got up to leave earlier (esp. the latter one), but didn't think they had as much glanced at me at the time. 
Is this something gals have now started doing with guys, that we used to do only with them? Or was something more sinister or "designing" going on?
I was probably old enough to be their dad. I have no idea who those gals were or how to get ahold of them, or whether I will even see them again (I never did before that night). They didn't stick around. I can think of about a million different ulterior motives the gals might have had in mind (drunk? on the re-bound? preggers? trying to make someone jealous?, a practical/cruel joke? a dare? I looked so sad/lonely? etc. etc. etc.) for why they did what they did, but I would LIKE to think they may have simply been thinking, "hey, there's a kinda cute guy I'd like to meet some time .." 
I never had anything like this happen before, so I'm bouncing it off you guys to see what you think ...
I was eating out earler tonight after work at one of my fav local Mexican eateries .. When I went to leave and pay my check, the server informed me that my tab had already been paid.
I was almost scared to ask, but got up the nerve and asked, "by whom?" The server pointed at an empty booth that had been occupied earlier and said, "those two gals that were sitting there." I was stunned. Those two gals were two much younger, kinda cute gals (one was actually pretty hot ) .. I never even made eye contact with them though (the hot one was sitting with her back mostly to me from my adjacent table ). I did kinda check them out with my eyes when they got up to leave earlier (esp. the latter one), but didn't think they had as much glanced at me at the time. Is this something gals have now started doing with guys, that we used to do only with them? Or was something more sinister or "designing" going on?
I was probably old enough to be their dad. I have no idea who those gals were or how to get ahold of them, or whether I will even see them again (I never did before that night). They didn't stick around. I can think of about a million different ulterior motives the gals might have had in mind (drunk? on the re-bound? preggers? trying to make someone jealous?, a practical/cruel joke? a dare? I looked so sad/lonely? etc. etc. etc.) for why they did what they did, but I would LIKE to think they may have simply been thinking, "hey, there's a kinda cute guy I'd like to meet some time .." Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
Sounds pretty odd to me but what do I know. 
One of the biggest changes for me has been simple eye contact. If I am wearing nice clothes...and stand up straight...very beautiful women will make big time eye contact with me and smile widely!! They would never do this when I was 300 pounds. They would give me extra room and try to avoid eye contact as much as possible. The mental side of WLS can really be much harder that the physical adjustments. Brian
I could have a BMI of 20 and most of the good looking women, and all of the good looking young women would throw rocks at my ass. That's just the way it is. Now mediocre to butt ugly ones? I can attract those all day long. Always have.
I have no idea how to explain my wife falling for me. She was actually kinda cute back in the day. (And honey if you read this, by back in the day I mean......this morning.)
I have no idea how to explain my wife falling for me. She was actually kinda cute back in the day. (And honey if you read this, by back in the day I mean......this morning.)
The free man owns himself. He can damage himself with either eating or drinking....... If he does he is certainly a damn fool, and he might possibly be a damned soul; but if he may not, he is not a free man any more than a dog.
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