I didn't know there was a mens board! Question???

thafatchick
on 9/28/08 2:34 pm, edited 9/28/08 2:44 pm

Soooooooooo fellas, I'm kinda pissed off.  My friend told me she is crushing, kinda, on this dude and she didn't tell him face to face but she thinks he knows.    She is chubby and I think men like him are just not into fat girls.    Which is ok, ya know we all have a preference.  He hasn't approached her and i don't thing he ever will.  It's like a joke for a fat woman to like some guys.  Anyways, we (me in particular) think he is playing stupid games like his friends will see what's up or just check things out or whatever when they see her at the store or something.  A few other weird occurrances that bother her.  They don't say anything, just look around (scan the place).  Sooooooooo, why do guys do that?  I mean if he ain't interested, then why play games?  I don't think he is interested and I told her to he is probably immature. I don't understand it.  What do y'all think 'cause I'm almost ready to tell her he got a problem.

ThaFatChick

snicklefritz
on 9/28/08 2:57 pm - Cincinnati, OH
How old is he? and she?  The younger they are the more cruel they can be sometimes

thafatchick
on 9/28/08 3:09 pm

Well, she is my age and I'm not about the man.  I am sure he is also in late 30s.  Maybe even 40 something.  That is what is so weird.  They are to old for this kind of thing, I think.    I mean, I really don't think he is interested, so the interest shown is not romantic.  So, what is it?  Something to giggle about?   "That's that fat girl that likes Manboy".  I'm just trying to understand so I will give good advice.  She is not going after him and he doesn't seem interested...  I don't get it?  It might be just an interest in SXE for him... What is it like to be with a fat woman? kind of thing, ya know?

ThaFatChick

thafatchick
on 9/28/08 4:02 pm, edited 9/28/08 4:03 pm

BTW, this is a real post.  I want a man's point of view.  On the Sex board the ladies will pipe in and I am not interested in thier view on this matter.  Just be honest with your responses.

I also thought about the first response...So you think what this man is doing is cruel behavior?  It does seem so.   Not very nice of him...  Not to mention the stress it is obviously causing her...  It is cruel and mean spirited, huh? 

I was thinking it was just them being nosey...And I have been stalked in the past, so the behavior was raising RED flags all over the place for me and I wasn't sure.  

Ok, I know its late so I will wait til monday for responses.  I'll just avoid the subject.  Good night, thanks guys.

ThaFatChick
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NotDave (Howyadoin?)
on 9/28/08 4:27 pm - Japan
There are plenty of guys into chubby girls. My nephew for one has never dated a girl who weighs less than him.

You just have to find those guys. Now he does break up with them a lot. The girls seems to have a lot of problems or their personalities don't match. But every time he breaks up with one he goes on to another heavy girl.

 

majesticman
on 9/28/08 10:32 pm - Upstate, NY
Sorry, at this point in my life, my only concern is can she suck a golf ball through a garden hose?  If so, she is for me!
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thafatchick
on 9/29/08 12:20 am
  Ok Majestic Man.  Very funny.  I'm tryna be serious here.

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BamaBob54
on 9/28/08 10:33 pm - Meridianville, AL
What the hell does this have to do with the Men's Forum?  This needs to be taken elsewhere - this ain't the place! 
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thafatchick
on 9/29/08 12:23 am
BamaBob, you're being mean.  Did you read that I want a man's perspective?  Gimme a break, this is the one time I been here nosing around.  I just want some responses.

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BamaBob54
on 9/29/08 3:00 am - Meridianville, AL
Sign on the door reads "Men's", just like the bathroom.  You go in there too? No one here could possibly know, or really care, what the dude is thinkin'.  The entire post is just BS.
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