Guys - How Should We Handle "Cleavage Confrontations" These Days?

 Had an encounter with a rather buxom business associate the other day, and that brought up something I have now wondered about for a long time:  how are we guys expected these days to act when a woman is talking to us while wearing rather "revealing" clothing, e.g. the "Sharon Stone Scenario"?   

  I have found myself in that situation with increasing frequency since my weight loss - even in biz-related matters - and am not sure how to handle it.      I think a lot of the gals in our area wear real low cut stuff (even in winter) b/c it is part of the day-to-day "Hispanic thing" in their part of the world (judging from the Spanish cable soap operas I've seen).  

  I mean, do ladies in those situations want or even expect us to "look"?    I wouldn't see how or why they would go to such measures if they didn't.    (imagine how we would expect American women to react if we walked around and talked to them like a primitive S. Pacific tribesman with our "huevos" exposed  )   Or are we supposed to just talk to them and pretend like we don't even notice the fact that they seem to be putting their "wares on display"?     If we ignore them totally, though, it might come off to the gal as an insult or that we must be "~" or something.     As a pre-op, I remembered how sometimes I would get dirty (i.e. mean) looks from a gal if she "caught" me even glancing at them during a conversation   (you'd think I was "Chester-the-Molestor" for doing it, or something, to her     )  I wonder if she'd have felt the same way if I looked like Robert Redford     back then, btw?      

  Social situations seem so complex anymore ..    

How can you help but not look?

Hell-to-tha-yeah I look!  She's GOT to want you to look to put it out there like that.  I am convinced of this.  I have had the same experience that you describe also, before WLS: Dirty eyeball, after WLS: smile and giggles.  :)  They know what they're doing.  I think I remember watching an episode of MAD TV several years ago that talked about this very same thing.  They were doing a faux commercial for something called "balls out jeans" for men.   It had the guys walking around wearing these "balls out jeans" getting pissy with the women and saying stuff like "my eyes are up here, honey!"  Funny stuff man.  True about the Univision Latino actresses also!  I have NEVER seen such an assembledge of "thick", fine, scantilly clad women in my life!  I watch it sometimes even thought I have no clue as to what they are saying!  LOL

 OMG   now that's a skit I wish I had seen (dang, maybe I should have been a comedy writer or something    )

 Yep as to those shows ..  I sometimes comment "she's got more cleavage than a Mexican soap opera!"                     (viva las fajitas!!!)

 Yoga class - all cleavage and mirrors. Maybe since I'm topless, it's more them looking at my cleavage than the reverse! 

Does every guy  watch hispanic soaps???

Yeah, but I'm only doing it to try and brush up on my espanol. Those gorgeous, sexy,  latinas just happen to be a part of the language aquisition package I think.

  Si 

Just to be on the save side, I force myself to look 'em straight in the eye. Probably creeps 'em out but it beats getting a reputation as a tittiewatcher.