Sorry I'm Not A Guy... But I Have A Question
On Dec 9th I was up to 426, am now down to 401, and am 6'4". I'm also only 26 years old but I have never had an issue with ED. My wife and I have sex daily without any problems. I have heard that once I have dropped the weight that the size of the guys penis does increase, anywhere from 1-3 inches. I have heard that from multiple guys who have lost a lot of weight. It be nice to be 9" but if not I'm more then happy with what I have.
Actually, Dr. Oz's famous comment on the "inch per lbage lost" thing on the Oprah show was later clarified by him in a special paragraph in his book You On A Diet .. He made it clear there that for the first certain # of lbs. you lose you gain an inch in length, but that additional weight loss after that point, although still "advantageous" in that regard, is NOT proportionately so .. (otherwise some of the Double and Triple Century Club members would be human tripods 
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) Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
The problem doesn't have to be attributed to his weight but it can also be attributed to his medication. Is he on any medication? Sometimes the combination of different meds that a man can be on can also cause ED. Or if you read the side effects of some meds just one med alone can have the side effect of ED. It could also be a combined effect of the weight and the meds.
It also helps if you can be honest with each other and talk about it because if he notices a problem no matter how small (no pun intended) the anxiety he can endure as a result of having this problem can build up and compound itself till it gets harder to have an erection each time.
But one thing is sure, looking at your picture I would say it's not you that is having this negative effect on him. Good luck,
Dan
It also helps if you can be honest with each other and talk about it because if he notices a problem no matter how small (no pun intended) the anxiety he can endure as a result of having this problem can build up and compound itself till it gets harder to have an erection each time.
But one thing is sure, looking at your picture I would say it's not you that is having this negative effect on him. Good luck,
Dan
Thank you Dan,
No he wasn't on any medications. He said it was just due to circulatory restriction due to weight. I doubt given his temperment that it was something a doctor told him because he hated to go to the doctor for anything.
I never said anything to him about the issue because I didn't want him to feel self-concious about it, he was actually the one who bought it up. We never talked about it again.
I appreciate you taking time to answer as well as your kind words.
No he wasn't on any medications. He said it was just due to circulatory restriction due to weight. I doubt given his temperment that it was something a doctor told him because he hated to go to the doctor for anything.
I never said anything to him about the issue because I didn't want him to feel self-concious about it, he was actually the one who bought it up. We never talked about it again.
I appreciate you taking time to answer as well as your kind words.
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I would add a caveat here, and that is do NOT encourage such a man to just go cold turkey off such meds for awhile to see if things "improve" ..
That can be very dangerous, or even deadly .. I know it can be tempting, but he should talk to his doctor in that situation to see about switching to another drug(s), if possible, and whether that is in fact the basis of, or contributing to, his ED ..
I would add a caveat here, and that is do NOT encourage such a man to just go cold turkey off such meds for awhile to see if things "improve" ..
That can be very dangerous, or even deadly .. I know it can be tempting, but he should talk to his doctor in that situation to see about switching to another drug(s), if possible, and whether that is in fact the basis of, or contributing to, his ED .. Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
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