So, Are You A "Chubby-Chaser"?
After seeing that curious term used in a post here earlier this week, I did a bit of looking around online and was surprised to learn that there are guys for whom "big" gals are a turn-on, some at what seems to be a fetish intensity level. I guess that's good for those gals, but in a way (as the post mentioned) it can have unfortunate consequences as the gal loses her excess weight. They then find out that the main attraction for them to their husband/mate was apparently just their body size, it would seem. 
That revelation kinda floors me, as I have always thought of body fat as anything BUT attractive on anyone ..
So, would you say you are one of these or have known someone who was, in the past?
Is the big attraction (no pun intended) the appearance itself, or is there something else afoot and attractive with those relationships, possibly the comfort in knowing that a MO or SO g/f / spouse is possibly less likely to have the opportunity to be unfaithful (i.e. be attractive to other guys), to leave a caring spouse, or be more appreciated by a husband/b/f than a thin woman might?
That revelation kinda floors me, as I have always thought of body fat as anything BUT attractive on anyone ..
So, would you say you are one of these or have known someone who was, in the past?
Is the big attraction (no pun intended) the appearance itself, or is there something else afoot and attractive with those relationships, possibly the comfort in knowing that a MO or SO g/f / spouse is possibly less likely to have the opportunity to be unfaithful (i.e. be attractive to other guys), to leave a caring spouse, or be more appreciated by a husband/b/f than a thin woman might?
Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
I've never been attracted to big women. Every so often one would come around that caught my attention, but she would typically be taken already. I'm very shallow I know. I'm not looking for miss perfect and I'm not all that into supermodel skinny (someone who's weight I just recently lost) but someone who is valuptuous. Marilyn Monroe is about the standard I rate on. i loved that womans body. Oh and Scarlett Johanson. Just that old school hour-glass figure thing going on. Still to this day I get all kinds of conversations on the singles sites (pof.com and okcupid.com) from women that are big and it shows. It takes a lot for me to even communicate back. I feel bad about this, but after 34 years I'm still not settling for less than what I'm looking for. She'll come along, big or tall. i have my faith in that. For the time being, I'll just have fun with whatever wants to have fun with me (female specimens only!)
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