Backed Out In Pre-op

tcalfo
on 5/14/09 7:50 am - Thousand Oaks, CA

I was 36 when I had the surgery and wished I had done it earlier.  It is like anything else- you get what you put into it. 

I am down 192 pounds and feel like a new person.  Read my stuff- I was terrified and had a lot going when I started.  It is worth it and I hope you can find it in yourself to push through.  I know this gets thrown around about a lof of things, but it is a blessing and I am thankful for it.
unidos
on 5/14/09 8:49 am - Deland, FL
For some reason I am not the least bit worried and my surg is in 24 hours.. I guess knowledge is key.. THis day feels like another day to me..

Maybe cause doc says he doesn't use a catheter or drain thing.. I am all good.. Cant wait..


          
lbsadropping
on 5/14/09 10:23 am, edited 5/14/09 10:24 am - Crofton, MD
U mean u dont get the dick tube???? What a eye popping experience  ---- when they take it out
Its whats called -  "you may feel a little pressure" "Or this may tingle a bit" No problem the drugs work
Good luck  Lotsaluv and welcome to the journey
arkman54
on 5/14/09 9:11 am - Fort Smith, AR
Nathan, well pretty much everything has been said.  I was 424, high blood pressure, blood sugar over 300 with insulin, was an effort to even get dressed, my legs would give out on me all the time and I would all of a sudden find myself on the floor.  It then took me like 10 minutes to try and pull myself up because my legs were so weak, I couldn't get up by myself.  I truly felt I was about to become bedridden and die.  A couple of years ago I was admitted to the hospital with congestive heart failure and my doc told my wife that there was a good chance that she would be planning my funeral.  Even then, I wouldn't consider WLS because I was afraid of the complications.  When I got to such a low place, I finally decided if I didn't do it, I WAS GOING TO DIE!!! and soon!  So, I could definately die because of my weight, or have the surgery, with a remote possibility (my doc said a 2% chance), but at least I would die trying to finally do something to help myself.  I went into surgery with absolutely no fear at all because I knew this was the right thing, but most of all because I got on here every day and read!!  I learned so much here that any fear that I might have had was wiped away.  I personally think this forum ought to be mandatory, as any of the other tests.  Nathan, get involved here, come everyday and hear the testamonies, read the back posts, read the people's profiles, ask questions.  I have now lost 165 lbs total, blood sugar is 78 without meds, blood pressure is normal without meds, can use my legs now, and I feel SO FRICKIN GREAT!  I can't believe how well I can get around.  I am so grateful for my new tool, but you still have to be vigil over your old mind.  It can be a real *****  Good luck on your decision.  We are here to support and encourage you on what ever you decide.  Michael



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Batwingsman
on 5/14/09 10:28 am - Garland, TX
  You have to identify what it is precisely you're afraid of ..  Are you afraid something will "happen" during the surgery?   (don't  --   "Dr. Nick" is a great surgeon!  )  ..   Or are you afraid of the lifestyle you must adhere to after the surgery?    Hey, that's part of the deal for your "tool" to work (and it WILL) ..    

  Hang in there and be brave ..   Join us on the Texas Forum too, lot of support there, as well as on Dr. NIck's forum ..  padner!   

Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "

HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )

Robert G.
on 5/14/09 10:46 am
I can relate, I felt like walking out as well.  Yes, I was in tears and then I had to walk into the OR and the nurses saw the look on my face.  They understand how you feel.  Like me you are probably worried about when you wake up and how the rest of your life is going to be.  Let me tell you I am so happy this was my decision.  I am down 103 pounds since December.  Search your soul and find a way to do it.  My only regret is I didn't do it sooner.  You are young, I am 44 years old and could have enjoyed so many years if I did this earlier.  Good Luck.
BobRoo
tbjohn
on 5/14/09 11:15 am - Loves Park, IL
I can understand where your coming from.  I was scared to death as well but went through with it.  I woke up and was beating myself up for weeks about what I had done to myself.  But I got better, weight started to come off, I started to be able to move around better, exercise, keep up with my kids, and ultimately reclaiming my life that I had lost for the last 20 years.

I am now almost a year and a half out, down about 155 pounds, and have been maintaining a constant healthy weight for about the last 4 months.  I run almost every day. On the days I don't run I try to ride my bike or find some other activity to partake in.

It's up to you to come to terms with yourself. For me, I am very grateful for what this tool has provided.

Good Luck!

Tom
dave_s
on 5/14/09 12:56 pm - Lake Mary, FL
Nathan,

I'm 32, backed out of it 4 years ago, and now I'm 9 weeks out post-op.  I wish I would've done it that time 4 years earlier, I too got scared and walked away.  It took me over a year to get switched back onto an insurance plan that would cover it!

I didn't have much but high blood pressure, but I did attempt first to lose it on my own, lost 50lbs going to the gym, etc and then never could bust under 300#.  I'm now 288 and still haven't hit the gym yet!! LOL  I'm signing up June 1 after I get some stability in my schedule (babysitter). 

I will say this, the first 3-4 weeks are hell, no question, I read all about it, but I guess I mentally blocked out all the bad stuff and glad I did.  I knew I had a competent surgeon and felt positive about the whole thing.  I had some complications, but all minor, an infection from the catheder which left a cyst on my right nut!  Ouch for a while, now I may have to go in and get it removed (the cyst) lol.  I'm not worried, it was still all worth it.  Be sure you have family or friends or both to help you on the first week or 2, you should rely on them and make it easier for yourself.

Hope you get back in there and do it!!!!!!!!
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dlamp
on 5/14/09 12:58 pm - Ildeyld Park, OR
I wish I could have done his when I was 26!! I had my rny when I was 35. It has been the best 5 years of my life as far as health reasons. Check out the pics on my profile I think my before and afters are there also. Hang in there just put one foot in front of the other and before you know it you will be a loser also.

Derrick
Mike F.
on 5/14/09 9:41 pm - Orlando, FL
Nathan,
We all get scared. If you're not scared of major surgery then you're probably lying to yourself. I had my surgery 3 weeks ago and I'm glad I did it. if you read my previous posts you'll see one before surgery where I asked if it was normal to have second thoughts about the surgery. The answer I got from everyone was a resounding YES. I am 55 and had diabetes, sleep apnea and high cholesterol. I wanted to get healthy to once again enjoy my family. I have lost 26 lbs since surgery, 41 lbs from my weight when I first signed up for surgery.

It is a very personal decision. You have to be ready mind and body. I have a very supportive family who were there every step of the way. I also found support goups and this site to be a great help also.

Hang in there, when you feel you are ready go for it and don't look back, just forward. It's a great ride.

Mike         
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