Did the type of women you like change after WLS?

I now find I have no interest in the females I know..  Some are starting to notice the change.. Oh well time to rebuild my harem.......j/k

Anyone else have this issue? I guess this is what happens to married folks.


Ladies please dont send or post your POV . I don't give a FCUK..

I went from ones that don't give a damn for sex to one that is .... OMG!!  (me trying to hide from her on occasion)

Married before, during, and after WLS.  One thing I will say...after I dropped the weight beautiful women would make eye contact with me and say "hello".  That felt really weard.  Being obese usually these same women would give me extra space while walking by...Thinking in their heads..."boy, that guy really let himself go".  They would look at you like you were some kind of pervert or something.
Like we have shared...the mental side of WLS is harder to deal with than the physical side.  If you're not grounded in this stuff, it can really throw you for a loop.  Society is going to treat you different...better.  You will get better service in business situations...those type of things.  Is it fair...No.  You're the same guy.  But it will happen.  Also remember that as high as 30% of WLS patients develop cross addictions...alcoholism (that wasn't there before), sex addictions, exercise (more acceptable in society).  Don't want to preach, just saying do a self exam from time to time.  Brian

I will not have the drinking issue.. I already tured to the bottle once. I am not asking Jack for anymore advice in this life noooooo Sir...

I agree. I am married and have 2 kids one befor and one after wls. It still is weird when beautiful woman tke alook. My wife will say thar chick was checking you out. I didn't even notice. I got use to being passed buy ans only looks were ones of discuss.

 

I have to say, I am still totally into my wife.  She is still a total turn on for me.  The only thing is that she has not kept up with my increase, in well, you know.

We both went through wls together. I have been with her for 21 years. She is all I need....lol

must be your kid in your avatar then or u married very young..

I found myself sticking my #12 in my mouth in a chatroom the other night.   A bunch of the people in there know about my WLS and my journey, and I made the mistake of saying something that sounded like I was not interested in a gal in the room b/c of her weight (or maybe in general, can't remember).   You could tell at least one of the gals in the room was O, as she quickly jumped my azz about how I used to be big myself and who was I to be having that 'tude toward big gals (the "pot calling the kettle black" thing).   

  I had always vowed I would never forget where I came from,   But then I have to admit that I have always gone for the hot lookers and not the "plain janes".      And yes, although I maybe batted 0 back then w. that philosophy (and at my old weight, no wonder why), now that I have the ability to possibly hit a homerun  --  why not go for it?    

  Good example of this from the other day when I was driving by the entrance to a department store:   a cute little thing was exiting the store and I gave her something akin to a wolf whistle.   If I had done that at my old weight (if I had even dared to), she would have looked in disgust at me and turned her nose up.   This time the cutie gave me the biggest smile and grin ..       That can only make a guy feel good.  

   

I think we all need to here some audio of this Wolf Whistle...