You all decide if you want me to stay.
We can do a group hug!!! And then figure out how to tag-team beat butthead!!!! You kick one leg, I'll kick the other!!!! Sometimes there is safety in numbers!!!
Fitness is not about age or a size -- it's really about an attitude and life style!!!
Life is not measured by the number of breathes we take, but by the moments that take our breathe away~~
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I guess I'm not sure how the board may have been violated or jeopardized. This is a public forum, and anybody who wants can run a google search for this type of forum. If some slimeball wants to find a select group of people, they don't need to have somebody tell them where to go to look. It is for reasons such as this that we are each given options to set our own security levels on our pages, and we can each decide how much info to disclose on our blogs. I don't see any harm done by you, only to you. I'm sorry this happened to you.
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Ditto to what Linda Anne and Christi said. We are all big girls and boys on a PUBLIC forum. I'm certainly not feeling jeopardized!!!
Fitness is not about age or a size -- it's really about an attitude and life style!!!
Life is not measured by the number of breathes we take, but by the moments that take our breathe away~~
(((Diane)))
Absolutely, stay here where your friends are! There is no need to leave. We may not have all the answers for you on how to deal with this, but we can certainly support your eating habits, weight, etc. during this time if nothing else.
You are the one who has had your trust broken. It seemed wonderful and real from your end and none of us can judge you for decisions made period.
Initially, I admit - I did wonder if the scuzzball was trolling here, but then I thought "nah, why bother, he's got other sites he's on searching for lonely lolitas". And this IS a public message board after all and we all should be careful with private information no matter what, so this is no different.
As I've told you before, you've come along way baby & you deserve to keep growing and gaining self-confidence! This is a setback but you are a strong woman and you will get through this. It will just take a little time. Be patient with that process but continue to love yourself through it all!
Again, big hugs to you!
Absolutely, stay here where your friends are! There is no need to leave. We may not have all the answers for you on how to deal with this, but we can certainly support your eating habits, weight, etc. during this time if nothing else.
You are the one who has had your trust broken. It seemed wonderful and real from your end and none of us can judge you for decisions made period.
Initially, I admit - I did wonder if the scuzzball was trolling here, but then I thought "nah, why bother, he's got other sites he's on searching for lonely lolitas". And this IS a public message board after all and we all should be careful with private information no matter what, so this is no different.
As I've told you before, you've come along way baby & you deserve to keep growing and gaining self-confidence! This is a setback but you are a strong woman and you will get through this. It will just take a little time. Be patient with that process but continue to love yourself through it all!
Again, big hugs to you!
((Diane))
I'm just getting to know you so I really hope that you don't leave. When I participate in public forums like this one, I assume that absolutely everyone in the world will have access to the information that I share because it *is* available to everyone that wants it shared. Anyone who believes otherwise or believes that the only people that read these boards are others going through the same experience, are being a bit naive (in my opinion).
As your friends, we just want to be here to support you through this. You didn't deserve to have this happen and you didn't do anything wrong. It is not wrong to hope and to believe and to dream. Unfortunately some people will try to take advantage of your optimism, but you can't let it beat you and make you regret those feelings.
Don't isolate yourself as you go through this. Keep doing what you did on Saturday - dust yourself off and get out there and try to make the best of the situation. It's the best way to deal with it and keep moving forward.
I'm just getting to know you so I really hope that you don't leave. When I participate in public forums like this one, I assume that absolutely everyone in the world will have access to the information that I share because it *is* available to everyone that wants it shared. Anyone who believes otherwise or believes that the only people that read these boards are others going through the same experience, are being a bit naive (in my opinion).
As your friends, we just want to be here to support you through this. You didn't deserve to have this happen and you didn't do anything wrong. It is not wrong to hope and to believe and to dream. Unfortunately some people will try to take advantage of your optimism, but you can't let it beat you and make you regret those feelings.
Don't isolate yourself as you go through this. Keep doing what you did on Saturday - dust yourself off and get out there and try to make the best of the situation. It's the best way to deal with it and keep moving forward.
"Keep your eyes on the stars and your feet on the ground" - T. Roosevelt
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