Unexpected comfort...exactly what I needed.

Well, I finally miscarried around last thursday...it's sad, but I really needed to be able to start my healing process. I have had a lot of support,and a lot of advice (some more appreciated than others). There were many kind words said, but nothing really "hit the spot". Until tonight. We moved back into our "home" ward about a month ago. The current Bishop is our friend George. I have known George and his wife Mary for 22 years...she was my beehive leader and he was a nice guy in the Bishopric who found me and returned me home everytime I ran away. Brother Anderson could always find me...even when I didn't want to be found. Well, as I was getting ready for a family b-day party tonight (at my house), some mail was brought over from my MIL's..she lives nextdoor and has been our official mailing address for years. In the mail was a church issue envelope, and inside that was a green, construction papaer card (very small, rectangle shaped), Bishop A. had cut it with some "fun" scissors and drawn a purple and red flower on the front (what Bishops take the time to do this?). Inside, there is purple writing in the upper right hand corner..."Happy Mothers Day". The rest of the inside of the card was taken up by this amazing message: No one really understands why so many pregnancies end too soon. Physically it often "cleans" the womb for the next successful effort. Emotionally and spiritually it provides more opportunity (unwanted!) for growth and for further preparation for parenthood. I am very sorry for your loss. And very happy for those you retain. I hope that you will find happiness and purpose here. I pray that you will help us to find joy here. Bishop A. Finally! That was what I needed to "hear". It didn't take away the hurt, it didn't make me suddenly shout for joy , but it brought me true comfort and peace. God bless George.

Daph, what a testimony that our priesthood leader know us and know what we need. Our Heavenly Father does love us, knows us and knows our needs. He often uses "Angels" on earth to reach out to us. I hope your take your bishops advice and get really active in your ward. HUGS Melody