Update.

Hi Miss D Sounds like you are just having a very difficult time with all of this and my heart goes out to you.. I have to say I've never heard that you couldn't get a divorce while pregnant. Thats kind of perplexing. I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and hoping things calmed down a bit for you. Being pregnant is a wonderful thing and to have so much turmoil just seems so sad to me but I can tell by your post you are a strong SISTER and will handle whatever comes you way. I never had the opportuninty to have a child but I have 3 step-children and 6-step grandchildren. I wish you happiness and peace. Take care and keep in touch Alfie

Daph, this still might be a blessing in disguise. You might not be able to divorce right now but you can still seperate. The seperation without the actual divorce might be what Kyle needs to see what he's giving up and going to miss. On the flip side, it might help you realize that you really are or are not better off without him. I'm sure you're giving it lots of prayer already and are still seeking priesthood guidance. Sending you a big HUG. Melody

Hi Daph, I just read your profile. Amazing amazing loss!! You have done fantastic. Since I am new to the board I didn't know about your upcoming divorce. I know this is a hard time but you certainly seem up in spirit. I too divorced, and have remarried. And even though he is a non member, he is the most wonderful man I know. We have been married almost 23 years. It just doesn't seem that long. Anyway, too much about me. I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you, and if it's meant to be for you and Kyle to be together, then I'm sure HF will find a way for that to happen! donna

Hey Daph- hang in there, sister. Seems awful that you have to wait, but use it to your advantage to see if you are ready to go solo. I don't know your situation, but if there is no abuse involved and it's just tough going with lots of problems spiraling out of control, then it may be a blessing in disguise. whatever the outcome, keep praying and know that answers to prayers aren't what we always want them to be. ((hugs)) lynn k