Click on the "friend" part of the my post and it will send a message to me to approve you as a friend. Or if you go to each person profile there is a 'friend' button on it I think. Gala

I was browsing this site today and I noticed some new icons on our posts. One of them is titled "friends". Do we have to send a message and ask specifically if someone will be our friend or do we just click on the "friend" icon to initiate the asking? Does anyone know? I would like to be a friend to everyone on this site as I consider all of you my friends. Melody

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Cristie, I don't know anyone who has gone to Mexico for their surgery but I have a personal friend who flew to Brazil for her surgery. She recommends going to Brazil for anyone that is self pay. Including air fare, hospital, surgeon, hotel fees; the total cost was approx. $15,000. She said the facilities in Brazil are absolutely the most modern technology available. The surgeon is U.S. trained and is one of the best in the world. If you want more information on going to Brazil I can give you the name and e-mail address of my friend who went to Brazil. Good luck, Melody

Gala, I, too, feel selfish & that my "problems" are just insignificant. I am so sorry for the troubles you have experienced. You must have some strong shoulders! I wish that I had the magic words to make everything all better. Years ago, I walked out of Relief Society in tears due to something that the RS President said that totally embarassed me. Another sister (who I was not close to at all, and we really didn't care a whole lot for each other!) came running after me crying as well. She begged me not to let another member chase me from church. She was crying and said don't let someone else keep you from the Celestial Kingdom. She was right. Now when someone asks me a particularly nosey question, I just follow the advice of Ann Landers and ask them... "Why do you ask?" They'll probably just say something about caring about you, etc. Simply tell them, "Thank you for your concern." Tell them NOTHING that you don't want to and just walk away. I really don't mean to tell you what to do... this is just what I do. Just know that we all love you and support you. We are happy to listen to you. There are many days where I need to vent, too. After 21 years, I've realized that DH ISN'T Prince Charming and can be a real pain in the neck at times! And our children!?!?!? My son is away at school and only contacts us when he wants something. Figures. My prayers are with you. Take a deep breath and talk to your Heavenly Father. He loves you, too.