Hi Tammy,

Welcome to the forum. I think that you are likely to find that this is an incredibly supportive group and I look forward to getting to know you as you make your way on this wonderful, life changing journey. It is life changing in so many ways. While the health improvements are phenomenal and in many ways life changing themselves, they can seem somewhat intangible. However, the quality of life changes that you spoke of are the things that are so tangible. Not having to worry if you will fit in the car, turnstyle, theater or airline seat, etc..., being able to go into any store and being able to fit into nearly anything opens a world of possibilities..., the ability to walk and walk and walk, or dance the night away,... The ability to tie your shoes and breathe at the same time,...

Learning to see the new you unfold is incredible and learning that the new you is not a passing thing, but is now your reality is incredible... It does take some time for your head to catch up with the changes, especially when we have been big since we were children and don't have a normal body size as a frame of reference.

For me, I think it is the quality of life changes that have been the most 'tangible'... even more so than my appearance. I had my surgery over 4 years ago. I have been 'slim' for a few years, yet when I got on a plane several months ago I nearly asked the flight attendant for an extender, then caught myself and smiled and said never mind. I was so used to always having to ask for one, that I was doing so automatically and then realized I don't have to do that or turn sideways as I go down the isle of the airplane anymore. I can't feel my lower HbA1C or Cholesterol level, but I can appreciate these quality of life things. 

Probably most incredible is finally coming to a place where you CAN actually keep the weight off. Something we have all tried to do, but never been able to master before. It's not magic, but it is an incredible tool.

Wishing you all the best,