Completely FREAKED.
Hello bzzebee ( cute name) I too have had the lap band procedure and I am very happy I did. Your very young to have so many health issues. Clearly your seeking answers and direction is the thing to do. The decision to have weight loss surgery should always be one that is a last resort I would first have to say. If you have done all, and know that you aren't getting any where ( which I assume is why your here) then surgery is an option. Which one, is also another decisions. You found us here so I also assume you've been all over the net reading up on the different surgeries. Lap band was my choice because I felt that there were less risks and I too am concerned about long term complications. That being said, while statistics show that there are less risks with the Lap band it does take a lot of commitment from the beginning with this surgery. It takes a lot longer to lose your total amount of weight. As a general rule it will take you 3 years to get to the place that RNY'ers usually get within the first year. But having said that, we do lose and it is possible to be successful so I am a happy bandster! As for complications I haven't had any, thankfully! other than some contipation issues LOL but that is about me having to learn to get in enough fiber and veggies! I have had no vomiting, nothing has gotten stuck (yet) I feel very good at 6 weeks post op. I have had no pain other than the usual pain right after surgery and no infections. Years ago I found a site that was for people that have complications. But I can't seem to find it. you might google that? It is important to know what your risks are. All I can say was it was time for me to JUST DO IT already and here I am. I am trusting God that I will be ok and I'm doing my best to eat the right way and stay healthy! I wish you much success on your journey! Sincerely, Sandra
My DH has also has the band (and never had any surgery) - his was two weeks after mine. Together, we've lost a total of approx. 107 pounds since end of May. He took a huge amount of insulin (5 injections a day) to have a fasting blood sugar of approx. 180. Now, no injections - my HBP is gone. We both look and feel great!
Of course, everyone has their own experience. I think the most important decision is looking at yourself honestly and knowing what you can and cannot do. There are risks with any WLS - and both gastric bypass, banding, or sleeving offer different results/requirements. Whatever your choice, know there are many of us out here to support your decision. 






