OT: A lady called me fat today

I decided to leave.  I said "what the fuck" and then went  home.  Alone.  Not good.

Stupid bullies, they are everywhere in life.....
Don't give her the head space.....forget it and move forward..
Obviously she doesn't know you from Eve.....

Don't let her control your day/hour or even minute.....F*** her.....and her bully ways.....

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I'm usually pretty outspoken.  But this just hit me. 

Karen

Do you think you are more hurt over bf not coming with you - as he is who you care about not the ***** who has no manners and can not see! I don think it matters how far out we are we will always be sensitive to comments regarding weight and how we look!

Is bf in the know about wls and how this is a sensitive subject for us/you ?

I feel so bad that you are alone - we all need someone in our corner to stick it to someone when we get hurt- I hope you can talk to BF about how you are hurt that he didnt stand up for you! If he isnt fully aware of your past he might not be clued in how difficult a situation this was for you .

Big hugs
deb

Yes.  And he's still not home. 

Hi Karen I don't  say much on oh but i like to read alot i'm not good at this typing thing but i hope i'm doing this right . I just want to say stop  and think why are you giving this person your Power take it back and  not worry over what other people think of you its what you think of yourself  you've come a long ways be Proud of what you've accomplish and to hell with them way to go girl just  just another member bubbly49

I know you're right.  But after having WLS 4.5 years ago and losing all the weight, I"m sensitive to it.  I have worked so hard it and it was just hurtful.

Who is this hag??  You should have told her to go **** herself Karen - cause you are not fat at all, and even if you were that's a f'ing horrible thing to say to anybody.

Also, tell the BF he's an asshole for not standing up for you and leaving when you did. 

I once cooked Christmas dinner for my ex's family and he ended up passing out cause he had a few too many and when he was sleeping his Aunt looks at me and says "Boy you've gained alot of weight since I met you"!! 

I was flabbergasted - and felt horrible because she was right - I had gained alot of weight.  I told my ex about it - and he was upset - but never said anything to her about it.  I never forgave her or him for that

I think I did. LOL

I'm so hurt Donna.  And here I thought I looked okay.  Like a normal person

You do look like a normal person!!!!  Don't let this ***** make you feel otherwise. 

Is this women a friend of your BF's or was she just someone at the gathering you were at?