easy way out

Doesn't sound like a good friend. My friend has RNY 2 yrs ago and had a baby no prob, and didnt gain anything back. My mom had RNY 15 yrs ago and eats fast food like it's going away sometime soon (yet never gets sick or gains weight back! UGH) Everything she said is a lie. And tell her to walk one mile in your shoes and see how it is. People need to be educated before they open their mouths about things they don't know! 

sorry to tell you hun but your "BEST FRIEND"  is an idiot.  Jealous and ignorant.  Move on.  Pat yourself on the back you took a health risk seriously and followed the BEST path for you.