Food Police

Thanks for the advice, yall.  I had a conversation with him where I told him my feelings had been hurt because it felt like his concern was from a place that didn't trust me to know what I was doing or what I could eat, and that I realize now that his concern is just out of love.  We had a good talk about it and he made it clear that he trusts me and knows I know what I'm doing, and I apoligized for being defensive about it (I honestly didn't realize how knee-jerk defensive I get about food stuff, but I guess that's part of the clarity that's come since having to take a step back since the surgery).

So, alls well that ends well, I guess, but thanks for giving me the courage to have an honest and mature conversation about it with him.