Single for the first time in 3 years
I'm so sorry. Breakups are hard and tend to upset your entire world. Just try to remember that the things you are moving towards are for a better YOU whether the relationship works out or not. Try to do the things to stay on track that you need to do for your surgery - you will regret it later on if you don't.
If you are able to talk to someone or go to counseling, I would. Breaking up from a long term relationship/marriage is one of those Top Five most stressful events you can go through.
If you are able to talk to someone or go to counseling, I would. Breaking up from a long term relationship/marriage is one of those Top Five most stressful events you can go through.
The sad fact is that the odds say you'd have broken up after your surgery anyway, especially if you were already having problems, but that does not mean it isn't heart breaking. Keep your eye on the prize--a new life with health, confidence and self-esteem. Lots of life to live out there and not having someone hold you back emotionally is a big blessing.
I'll pray for your safe surgery and speedy recovery. Hang in there!!
Best to you,
Denise
I'll pray for your safe surgery and speedy recovery. Hang in there!!
Best to you,
Denise
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RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!
*6.5 lost preop
Good riddance! Count your blessings...you are going to have a life-changing surgery in a few weeks that is going to give you the health, body, and life you want and deserve. You deserve a man that is going to support, love, and appreciate you, too!!! Trust me, "the one" is out there for you!!!
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Confucius
Height: 5'10 HW: 400 SW: 374.6 GW: 160
Height: 5'10 HW: 400 SW: 374.6 GW: 160
I am so sorry you are going through all this. I had something similar happen right before my surgery, I even thought about cancelling the entire thing. But I did not and I am so happy I didn't. Take that negative feelings and turn it positive. Use this as motivation. Motivation to be a new healthier slimmer YOU!
Good luck
Good luck
I am sorry you are hurting. But time-wise, I think you will look back and realize the timing was perfect. You have the time now to focus 100% on yourself and not the drama you may have been having with him. A healthier you is the best gift you can give to yourself!!!
Laura
Laura
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."
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