Anyone's sex life NOT improve after surgery?
You would think me being minus 85lbs would make my husband want to have sex all the time. Nope. Ever since surgery, he is avoiding anything sexual with me and it is starting to make me feel weird. I have tried to talk to him about it. It chuckles and brushes it off. I am starting to wonder if he liked me fat better!
I am in the same situation.
Kelly
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Is your husband overweight?
If so, it could be a case of "Well, when we were both fat, I wasn't so self conscious." But if he's heavier than you, it could be him feeling less attractive and more worried about HIS flaws than yours.
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Ahh, nevermind, I read more replies after I posted.
I don't know, that's interesting. And definitely worth a heart to heart chat that he can't just brush aside like a joke.
If so, it could be a case of "Well, when we were both fat, I wasn't so self conscious." But if he's heavier than you, it could be him feeling less attractive and more worried about HIS flaws than yours.
[Edit to add]
Ahh, nevermind, I read more replies after I posted.
I don't know, that's interesting. And definitely worth a heart to heart chat that he can't just brush aside like a joke.
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Highest weight: 269. Surgery weight: 233. Goal weight: 144, and then we'll see..
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Highest weight: 269. Surgery weight: 233. Goal weight: 144, and then we'll see..
I do not. I have saggy boobs but that's it.
Kelly
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
My breasts are quite deflated. My hubbie doesn't touch my boobs like he used to. I feel somewhat sad (it's my loss also) but I don't blame him they are pancakes. He loves my thin waste and my ribs and is always hugging me!
I'm having plastics in Dec. and and I bet he won't be able to keep his hands off of them!
I'm having plastics in Dec. and and I bet he won't be able to keep his hands off of them!
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