DUDES ONLY!

Truthfully I find women with a little curve much nicer than a "skinny mini" I also didn't like being a "skinny mini" for a while there. I'm much happier a little bit higher than what I was. Still a size 4/6 but at least a bit more curves have finally come back . And yes, I swear all my "bounce back" weight has been straight to the girls! WOOT!

Weight doesnt matter!!!! Healthy is sexy. I dont like sticks. Curbes make a woman. I have finally realized this journey has nothing to do with the scale. We all did this to be happy healthy people... Who gives a rip if we hit the number on the scale! A happy healthy woman is the most sexy rhere is!

And i will also add
Penis, penis,penis
Vagina,vagina, vagina

A woman who is healthy and fit but a few pounds more than she believes she should be...

I can say this from personal experience...early in our marriage, the woman to whom I am now married was probably the optimal weight as per the standard BMI charts...however, the deprivation and misery to which she subjected herself to maintain negated any positives to the relationship that it might have contributed...she was often nauseated, light-headed, irritable and frustrated because she thought that she needed to be this way to be a good, Kingdom (chult-speak...church + cult=chult...both of us are long gone from that self-imposed insanity...but I digress) wife...

Once it was established that I would be equally excited to see her naked with an extra 10-15 lbs than she currently had, she began to actuallly eat and become a much more pleasant person...while I'd like to report that everything from there was more good than bad, I can't...for many reasons....but that is a another post for a another time...

Theres nothing wrong with a little junk in the trunk i think its sexy