Are the old-timers (vets) on OH Condescending???
Yes, "exhausting" is the perfect word. "Discouraging" was all I could think of but that didn't quite capture it...
Lora (just another grumpy vet who apparently knows nothing --even though I am maintaining at 5 years out --and just comes where to be mean to people)
Lora (just another grumpy vet who apparently knows nothing --even though I am maintaining at 5 years out --and just comes where to be mean to people)
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
It is a good thing to take a break for a few days sometimes ... but please don't disappear - your posts are always valuable and I always appreciate your psychology insights.
5 years and still here is nothing to be sniffed at ... That was always the time you became a "real" vet - definitely "been there, seen it, done it" by then!
5 years and still here is nothing to be sniffed at ... That was always the time you became a "real" vet - definitely "been there, seen it, done it" by then!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
I try not to pile on when a vet gets reamed for saying a truth, because I know you can all look after yourselves ... but I did have to sit on my hands yesterday - when I thought you were the lone truth in a sea of wishy washy ...
I thought it might seem a bit bullying if I ^5'd you when she was clearly not feeling your advice so here's a
today instead!!!
I thought it might seem a bit bullying if I ^5'd you when she was clearly not feeling your advice so here's a

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Does that include those that are "miserable" - you remember, the ones who should "go live their miserable lives elsewhere" and stop telling the truth to the newbies LOL!
That was a classic!
And there's me thinking I am goofy and loveable LOL!
That was a classic!
And there's me thinking I am goofy and loveable LOL!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist