ARE u seriously HAPPY with YOUR NEW BODY ??????????
I am most excited about being off high blood pressure and cholesterol medications. The big bonus is going from a size 24W to a 12 misses in nine months. Of course, I feel and look better. However, I will always regret gaining 145 pounds in under ten years causing the now excess skin on my stomach, thighs and upper arms that I will have to live with for life. I'll take the excess sagging skin any day over the 290 pounds.
Banded Oct 2008: 290
RNY Feb 2012: 245
Dr's set goal: 170 reached Oct 11, 2012
My goal: 160 reached Dec 1, 2012
Today : 145-150
I am half the person I was in 2008.
Now, I like my body... in general, anyway. (It does NOT, however, look like a body that was always thin; unclothed, it looks like a body that was SMO and then underwent plastic surgery.) I still DESPISE my thighs. I have always hated them (they are very muscular and prone to excess weight, even when I was younger), so I am used to that. Between the significant amount of extra skin and some residual fat, I still cannot show my thighs in public even after losing almost 190 pounds. I wear swim shorts over the top of my swimsuit to keep them covered and wear only shorts that hit below the knee because the excess skin puddles at the knee when i stand up. My still DDD-cup boobs hang all the way to my waist (literally), but an industrial strength bra takes care of that when I am clothed, so that doesn't bother me too much. (I would like to get a reduction, but insurance won't cover it and I cannot afford it... So I will just live with them as is.)
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
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I am happy with my body. I won't win any swim suit contests and I don't wear shorts d/t the condition of my legs...but I look good in clothes. I can walk into any store grab a jr size 7 and a size medium top...and it fits....and looks flattering. Can't ask for more than that at age 51 ![]()
SW 212 / Goal 130 / Current 130
I look good ... I can wear a bikini and short shorts ... but I have had some plastics - tummy tuck and breast implants (purely for vanity).
I was slightly overweight from the age of 30-40 but only became MO after a late pregnancy at 41 and had RNY 11 months later, so haven't really had skin problems even though I am 50.
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist











