Trying to stay positive
It gets better, just hang in there. Walk as much as you can, sleep with a pillow shoved under your side to help with comfort, drink as much as possible. You will feel better, I'm 2.5 weeks post op and I feel pretty good at this point, I get tired pretty quick but I keep pushing and I haven't needed pain killers since day 5.
RNY on 07/09/12
Give yourself about four to six weeks. I found that at about six weeks out, I was back to feeling pretty "normal."
Welcome to the loser's bench, and let go of that "buyer's remorse" as you're on your way to a fantastic new life. The phase you're in sucks, but six weeks from now I'm thinking you're going to have a whole new outlook.