feeling discouraged

I think most people go through this stage. You can do this!! After surgery you will miss certain foods for a very short time, but not like you are now. The cravings are basically gone. I pretty much only eat to live at this point. Food is the last thing on my mind....

Sending you a hug!  I am in the presurgery stage as well.  I am not on a liquid diet yet.  I am hoping for a surgery date in early September if all goes well.  My insurance requires a three-month period of meeting with my pcp prior to considering approval.  I agree with what some of the others have commented.  Focus on the positive.  As long as we are having surgery with a reputable surgeon at a reputable hospital, complications should be minimal.  The way I look at it..... if I don't have surgery the chances of having much more serious issues are much greater.  Hang in there and come back often for support and encouragement.