date semi set

I had a pre pre op yesterday and they set a date of 4/7 if i stay with this surgeon but i might get passed to the surgeon that started today which means i might be getting it in march. I am hoping for march 17th that would work the best for me and everything that is going on in my life right now. hopefully i will find out by the end of this week/beginning of next week. I have no clue so i am really stressing about this. i have no clue what to tell my work that i can or can't work and i am an autistic caregiver so they have to have someone there. well that is what is going on right now.

Sarah