Very upset

 I am sure I come off as judgemental it's not my intention . People come here and say I did this or that and honestly it sounds like some want someone to say  ,oh that's ok. We all have heavy friends who liked us heavy . Remember ? We could say to them omg I ate a whole cake , lol, I ate a whole pie it's ok. We /I want you all to do awesome!!! I wish you all only the best. I just won't say it's ok