(Almost) 2 yrs post-op: A time of Reflection

I will be two years post-op RNY on March 2.  I haven't updated my file in months so I thought I would do some catching up today...

Old me                      New me

weight 320                  weight 135(toggle between 135-142)
pant size 30/32             pant size 6
shirt size 3X               shirt size s (4-6)
undies size 13              undies size 6
bra size 44 C               bra size 34 B (not happy about this one, lol)
shoe size 10 wide           shoe size 8 regular


I have lost 185 pounds and feel great!!  I actually enjoy cleaning my house now!  Alot has happened since my surgery..My dear hubby of almost 21 years was critically injured in a motorcycle wreck on his 6 month surgiversary which was September 29,  2006.  We spent 83 days in Vanderbilt hospital, and it was very touch and go for a long time.  According to medical records, he shouldn't even be alive.  He had a ruptured heart and most people with that bleed out at the scene.  He is now a paraplegic as a result of the accident.  God saw fit to allow me to have him on this earth a while longer.  Had it not been for HIS intervention, I would be without my best friend and soulmate.  We have come a long way, and still have a way to go, but I know with God's grace, we will be fine!  Because of all of the doctor's appointments, I was taken off of my "salaried" position and put on an hourly rate. This has put us in a little bit of a pinch, but you know what? My God has not forsaken us or forgotten us.  HE has taken care of us by making sure all of our bills have been met!  Then, on October 2007, I lost the other best man in my life, my daddy. I miss him dearly and think about him daily, but again, because of God's grace and promises, I will see him again.  I could go on and on, but I have no reason to whine.  I am a blessed woman!!  I thank God daily that he made a way for me to have this surgery.  He knew that today I would be where I am and he knew that I could not have done it weighing in @ 320 pounds.  I cannot express in words what God means to me and how much I've learned to FULLY depend upon HIM.  He has proven himself to me over and over this last 2 years.  People have said to me over and over again about how strong of a person I am and they don't know how I've handled things so well....I haven't...GOD is doing it through me..Before the accident, I only "partly" trusted him with my life. I can assure you that when I got that dreaded call, I gave my life to him 100% and I haven't been the same since.  I do want to thank my immediate family, friends (especially Michelle who was my crutch through the critical times) church family, co-workers, Brian's co-workers, total strangers, and of course, my OH family for all of your prayers, well wishes and support.  Sorry, if it sounds like I am a preacher's wife (which I am, by the way)but my cup runneth over today.  I am so at peace with everything and only wish I could give it to  each of you. Please, if you do not know this man called Jesus, search HIM out before it is too late.  I have been asked if the surgery was worth it, if i would do it again.  My answer to both questions is YES!!  Thanks for taking the time to read this "book", and if I can help you in any way, please feel free to call on me! I will try to post some pics soon, I promise! I love you all!

I know hon that you feel like a new person, and look absolutely wonderful, hugs Barb

How great for you to have such a positive outlook on hardships. I firmly believe that they bring us closer to God. I am 2 weeks post lap-band surgery and have lost 42lbs altogether since starting my journey. I hope I can be as successful as you have been.

Thanks, Jennifer!  Just stay the course and you will do fine!  42 pounds is a great start!  If I can help you in your journey, feel free to call on me!  God bless you!

Hi Donna: You have done so well..  I am so glad that you posted...  I have often thought about you and wondered how you were doing.. Many times when I see a Clarksville sign I think of you and Brian....  Please let him know he is in our thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see the new pics.. 

Thanks, Julie!  Sounds like you're doing a great job yourself!  God Bless ya!

Hi, I'm 10 days post-op and I'm from Clarksville also. Your reflections are beautiful and exactly what I needed to read today. I've been having a little bit of "buyer's remorse" yesterday. I know that I can do ALL things through Christ who strengtheneth me but my flesh is weak and I've had some weak moments a couple of days this week. I praise God that I read your post today. I'll pray for you and your husband for God's continued grace and mercy on your family.

Neenaj, Thanks so much for the reply.  If it helped you in some way, then it was definitely worth the time it took me to type it.  Stay the course!  It does get better, I promise....I am here if you want to talk or if you think I may be able to help you in some way...God Bless You!

What an amazing transformation inside and out. Thank you for sharing.

 

Thank you, VolsDiva and God bless you on your journey as He has on mine.