I can only say what I know....

I think I am gonna just post this cause I can.....    

  I am never ever ever gonna apologize for who I am.....   The reason why is because I did a check and I did a recheck and as long as I never violated anyone else for being me then I have to believe that I can keep going....   

  I do have to be accountable for whoever I affect with my words.....   That is not a one way street...   The street runs both ways....    

  I do have an obligation to the wonderful people that hurt and suffer here everyday...    I do owe you some Trinkets from Trina....  

  The reason that I owe you is cause everyone on here is for the same flippen reason....   We are obese... we have been obese...  and there is no one else on the whole fricken planet that is going to understand our daily pains or our prejudice that we have to face each and every day as a morbid obese person...     If we want to make new friends we can go to make a new friend dot com...   if we want a new boyfriend we can go to  i need a new boyfriend dot com... 

  I know that sounds pretty brutal but if each and every one of us do an inventory tonight on our own recognizant then I feel pretty sure that you are gonna feel the same way...   

  I have made numerous phone calls and have tried everything under the sun to get certain folks on here to talk to me and to tell me how I have offended them so much but they will not talk to me.   My phone calls are not returned and my messages go unanswered to no avail....   

  I come from the school that communication is the key to success....   If you will not talk to me in person then there is some reason why and there is nothing more I can do......  I have made myself available to everyone in the Nashville area......   There is nothing more that I can do....   Please check my previous post....  I think that what I have posted in the past along with my length of time posting should speak for itself.....      

  I have to agree with a post that Scott made earlier that we are all different.  We would surely perish if we were made from all the same cookie cutter...   (Why oh why does this guy keep refereeing to cookies)........

Okay...I obviously missed something.  Happy Tuesday anyway! Freddie

Hey, Happy Tuesday to you also!!!!  What happened to your avatar?

There is a possibility that I killed it (by accident.)  Or...maybe I have become invisible!  No...I killed it. 

She lost so much weight you can't even see her anymore!!!!

Hey sweet Kimberly,     So good to see you hun... Have not seen you in forever....  

    You win the prize for the funniest thing said all year....  That is absolutely right.....   Ms. Freddie has lost so much that we can not even see her anymore....   LOL  

  You been holdin back on me haven't ya......   LOL       

  Gotta run out to the airport and pick up some special folks....   I heard that Lyle Lovett is on this flight so gonna go there early...   Only cause I just love Julia Roberts....  Okay some folks are not able to let things go.....      

  Big hug for Kimberly

Trina,     I'm the new kid on the block but will pop my two cents in...hehehe... All you can do is what you can do.  I too am a firm believer in communication, heck, without it, I wouldn't be in business and without it, none of the people on this board would have the support we all obviously need.     I have read tons of your posts in my  search for as much info as I can find about WLS and you seem like a "whatcha see, is whatcha get" kinda gal to me. Good for you. I wouldn't change that for anyone.     So far, I think everyone on here that i have communicated with is great.  You all have shared a part of yourselves that makes it easier on us newbies.  Personally, I think those of you who have gone through this are leading the rest of us through...     Please don't change Trina... I think you're great JUST the way you are and if somone doesn't like you...then i would have to say it is their loss!     Thanks for letting me put my two cetns in ;D

Hi Shell,   Thank you for taking the time to read and reply to this post...

  For someone to just take one second out of their hectic day just to say "i appreciate you",  is huge....  Huge i tell ya...   just huge... 

  Imma gonna be there for you too..   It is a give and take deal...  I want to be a giver not a taker.......     

  When I give to you I am gonna beg God right now that I give to you with no strings attached.  We will make a pact now that when I give to you, that you have to do absolutely nothing in return but to be Shell....  And when Shell gives to me....  if I am silent at the moment and can not find the right words to say to her, then she is gonna be just a okay cause our support is unconditional...

Awww....Trina... you are such a sweetheart.  You know, it is the givers who hurt the easiest in life.  We always want to be there to help and uplift those around us and sometimes, well... life just doesn't always cross our paths with those who appreciate that.  Don't change the way you are sister... I only just met you and already love you! I'm here for you too anytime you need me!  {{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}} Shell

Ya'll are too silly!