emotional help

Hey i was just wondering if anyone else was having problems with their hubby or wifes as in them not say how nice we look now or that they are proud of us? I drives me crazy but i cant remember my hubby saying that to me sinve my surgery and i have lost 47 lbs so for.

Sorry to hear what you are going thru. I went thru the same thing myself.  It drove me crazy too.

Good job on your loss!!!

Shannon

I was single at the time of my surgery so I didn't really go through this but it seems from what I read that a few people do.  A lot of times it happens because the other person is feeling insecure and afraid that you will decide that you need/want something other than them and they think you might leave them or that they are feeling bad about how they themselves are physically.  Sit and talk to your hubby.  Reassure him how much you love him and such and tell him that you need his support.  Best to you.