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DH has lost his mind...

roundater
on 7/14/11 1:25 pm - Lincoln, NE

VSG on 06/10/11

If it keeps up and he is willing you might want to seek professional help.

Rich Sonderegger

DrHollywood
on 7/14/11 5:30 pm - Harbor City, CA

VSG on 02/01/11

OOOooooOOOoooo GEEEZ! I hope he gets through this ASAP!
You need support in your recovery and sleeve journey. Sorry your going
through this. I know its frustrating you, but like the part when you said you now
have something to talk about to your therapist next week. That-a Gurlie...
keep up the sense of humor. Hope this passes soon and your hubby realizes
he needs to knock it off!

Huuugs'

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                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241 - CW: 154.7- GW: 140


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7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!! 2.6 pounds (148.4)


                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

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                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011 (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s" June 20th 2011 (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's" July 16th (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s" August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI" 24.8 October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011 (149)

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jennjenn07
on 7/14/11 6:16 pm

I wish your story was unique, but unfortunately it's something that happens frequently I guess..My hubby thought I was cheating on him because I put on make up before work one day...it's not as if I never wore it before...just not that often...but it was a sure sign I was cheating!! I wore it a lot more when I was heavier but I guess that went unnoticed :( Hang in there girl!

Jenijeni
on 7/15/11 12:15 am

VSG on 02/01/11

Thanks everyone! I've decided that I'm going to call him 24/7 to tell him where I'm going and with who. It's going to make him nuts. Watch! LMAO. He owns his own company, so it's not like he can't get a call at work. I'm going to call him when I go to get gas, on my way to the post office, grocery store, picking up kids, having lunch with my mom...

Think he'll get a clue?
I tell you though, the first time I feel like I have to say "Can I go...?" is when the ****'s gonna hit the fan! I won't be a dog on a chain. Have always been a free-spirited hippie chick and THAT'S never gonna change! Sorry guys, but men suck! If they sucked BETTER, I'd like 'em more!

HW: 250 SW: 224 GW: 135 CW: 124

colelea613
on 7/15/11 6:53 am - LA

VSG on 08/02/11

I know that as a single gal who thought she had met a nice guy in Jan 2011. He is a boat captain and away from home alot....it annoyed the hell out of him if I texted or call more than once a day.
So calling your husband all day long should help him see...how annoying it is to "kept tabs on".

I think showing up unannounced at his business would be fun...."Just checking up on ya" visit

Cole

(deactivated member)
on 7/15/11 1:40 am

VSG on 05/11/11

Well, like others have said, this is something that happens frequently after weight loss. I am going through something similiar. I decided that I wanted to join a gym and have a personal trainer. Well, my fiance decided that he wants to join the gym also because he thinks I'm out cheating while at the gym. I just laugh at him!

Hopefully your therapy session will help out with this situation.

theshrinkingmimi
on 7/15/11 6:50 am

VSG on 06/10/11

If he has a history of cheating, then he is focused on his own bad behavior even if in distant past. Yes this is common with WLS, but it is also common for cheaters and past cheaters to be very jealous.

Either way, you are right to be seeking therapy. Keep taking care of yourself. It is very possible for the two of you to get through this. It would be nice if you both could see someone together.

Pre-liquid diet 392; VSG'd on 6/10/11; 5'9"; SW 368/ GW 195?

Pounds lost: mth1=26.7; mth 2=21.2; mth 3=24.8; mth 4=13.8; mth 5=14.2;
            mth 6=11.8; mth 7=9.2; mth 8&9= 17.2

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