she really had the nerve!
my brothers ex is crazy. she cut his brakes under his truck, stalks him, and accuses him of hitting her when he dont ETC.
well, my parents are out of town and i was asked to go check on my brother
guess who was over at the house? his ex. she was yelling at him so i went in and asked her to leave. she said this to me "shut up you fat ass *****".........words that no fat person wants to hear. then she continued to say that her whole body was the size of 1 of my legs. i said you have no clue what health problems i have and she said thats your excuse? you musta had those problems your whole life. then began shouting out things about me to my fiance (who was with me) that are not true. she's only 19. but i think shes bipolar. shes going to end up hurting someone. and i think she needs to be in a mental institution. after i left (which i chose to do instead of punching her in the face) she text messaged me saying "you better watch out *****" which is a threat.
with all of the things i have going on in my life right now, especially with this surgery coming up, i do NOT need this drama. i was just tryin to watch out for my brother. and unfortunately she has him brainwashed so he took her side and asked ME to leave. pft! i know that shes crazy, young, and immature. and that she was just saying those things to hurt me cause no bigger female wants to be called a fatass. BUT it still gets under my skin, probably because i was teased my whole life.
anyway, im done w/ my rant. just wanted to get that off my chest. thanks my OH family for listening. soon enough, ill be "skinny" and no longer a "fatass"
We no longer have to react to situations like this.
All we need to do is 911..
I am sorry your heard those painful awful names. yes it hurts us.
You are and no longer going to be that person anymore.
You are a Beautiful, Gorgeous, kind person and deserve this sleeve journey
recovery.
I too felt like I wanted to punch her for you. Just remember...its ok to think but do
not act on it. Just call the cops next time.
There is a saying... " some are sicker than others!" she is definitely sick!
Keep the faith and Keep trudging your journey!

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"Keeping The Faith!" "Slim by Summer!"
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"AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
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' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"
Two Year Surgiversary!!!"
i hated hearing those hurtful words too. i didnt react in front of her, cause i didnt wanna give her the satifaction of knowing that she hurt me. but i did cry when i got home.
thank you so much for the compliments. i know im beautiful and kind and i deserve only good things. its just hard to give myself compliments when someone skinny is telling me different. i know it shouldnt matter what she says considering the source. i wish you could punch her for me hahaha. i would never act on my thoughts though so dont worry! haha
thanks so much :-)
did you brother take "her side" because he still has feelings for her OR to get you away from that crazy *****
Restraining orders are OK but come with major obstacles, like distance from the victim, police officer must have witnessed the offender approaching, etc.....get an Order of Protection..that is directly from the DA office and ORDERS the police to keep tabs on her, to the point of having surveillance. Unfortunately your brother will have to get involved by telling the DA that she cut his brake lines, etc.
Good thing you had your fiance there to witness it all. Punch your couch a few times and recite her name....your day of reckoning is coming
I think my SIL's meds are a bit more stable and she has been better in the few years since this incident, but I will never forget it. Count your blessings that she is your brother's ex.