she really had the nerve!

so long story short:
my brothers ex is crazy. she cut his brakes under his truck, stalks him, and accuses him of hitting her when he dont ETC.
well, my parents are out of town and i was asked to go check on my brother
guess who was over at the house? his ex. she was yelling at him so i went in and asked her to leave. she said this to me "shut up you fat ass *****".........words that no fat person wants to hear. then she continued to say that her whole body was the size of 1 of my legs. i said you have no clue what health problems i have and she said thats your excuse? you musta had those problems your whole life. then began shouting out things about me to my fiance (who was with me) that are not true. she's only 19. but i think shes bipolar. shes going to end up hurting someone. and i think she needs to be in a mental institution. after i left (which i chose to do instead of punching her in the face) she text messaged me saying "you better watch out *****" which is a threat.
with all of the things i have going on in my life right now, especially with this surgery coming up, i do NOT need this drama. i was just tryin to watch out for my brother. and unfortunately she has him brainwashed so he took her side and asked ME to leave. pft! i know that shes crazy, young, and immature. and that she was just saying those things to hurt me cause no bigger female wants to be called a fatass. BUT it still gets under my skin, probably because i was teased my whole life.
anyway, im done w/ my rant. just wanted to get that off my chest. thanks my OH family for listening. soon enough, ill be "skinny" and no longer a "fatass"

Still have the tex on your phone?  You could go to the local PD and see about a restraining order if you really fee nervous about her.  If fatass is the worst she can say about you, the you must be pretty cool.

i do. i saved the text. im thinking about going to the PD (my dad is also a cop so theyd prob see me as a credible source) and either file a restraining order against her or at least file an incident report so that they know she's crazy if anything else ever happens. you know, im not really scared of her. shes a scrawny short child. BUT she is chemically imbalanced in the head and crazy people do crazy things so i am scared of what she will do. problem is, if she flattens my tires or keys my car or anything else...i have no proof that she actually did it. i just hate that people actually act like this! yea im a great person and fatass is the only thing she could think of to say about me. cause there is nothing else she has on me other than weight.

next time call the cops.  she is sick.
We no longer have to react to situations like this.
All we need to do is 911..

I am sorry your heard those painful awful names.  yes it hurts us.
You are and no longer going to be that person anymore.

You are a Beautiful, Gorgeous, kind person and deserve this sleeve journey
recovery.

I too felt like I wanted to punch her for you.  Just remember...its ok to think but do
not act on it.  Just call the cops next time.

There is a saying... " some are sicker than others!"  she is definitely sick!

Keep the faith and Keep trudging your journey! 

thanks so much for you supportive words. yes, she is sick. i shoulda called 911 but i didnt wanna get my brother involved with the law and ruin his future, because i knew he would side with her. and im in nursing school, i cant have a criminal record. she is so crazy shed probably say i did something to her that i didnt do. so im gonna go to the cops alone and let them know whats going on. shes been doing this 3 years now and idk how he takes it. hes dumb for putting up w/ her. cause they break up then he goes right back to her. i guess thats the manipulative side of crazy. idk.
i hated hearing those hurtful words too. i didnt react in front of her, cause i didnt wanna give her the satifaction of knowing that she hurt me. but i did cry when i got home.
thank you so much for the compliments. i know im beautiful and kind and i deserve only good things. its just hard to give myself compliments when someone skinny is telling me different. i know it shouldnt matter what she says considering the source. i wish you could punch her for me hahaha. i would never act on my thoughts though so dont worry! haha
thanks so much :-)

Just an attack like you said.  Hurtful, yes, but she meant to hurt.  She's crazy, don't let it get to ya.

did you brother take "her side" because he still has feelings for her OR to get you away from that crazy *****

Restraining orders are OK but come with major obstacles, like distance from the victim, police officer must have witnessed the offender approaching, etc.....get an Order of Protection..that is directly from the DA office and ORDERS the police to keep tabs on her, to the point of having surveillance.  Unfortunately your brother will have to get involved by telling the DA that she cut his brake lines, etc.

Good thing you had your fiance there to witness it all.  Punch your couch a few times and recite her name....your day of reckoning is coming

 This sounds similar to something my SIL once pulled on me in a restaurant. In my case, my SIL got angry because we gave my brother too many presents for his birthday. Apparently, she thought we should never give him more presents than we gave her or her adult kids in total number. Then she started going on about how she gave everything away to Goodwill that we gave him anyway. As I took my water glass tempted to heave it in her face, she called me a FAT Ass ***** and said that I had killed my father because I supposedly drove him to the affair he had on my mother which led to him being murdered by the ex-husband of the woman he left my mother for. Anyway, it got really really ugly and I was so trying to restrain myself as she threatened to come over and kick my FAT ass. My mother at that point said "go ahead and try it" because she was ready to take her on with her cane and all. It was like an episode of Jerry Springer and while everything else she said to me rolled off, because I knew she was PSYCHO, of course the being called fat so many times was probably the one that did not because of course most of us feel like failures. It was like the one criticism she hurled at me that rang true and of course I wanted for everything she said to be garbage like all the rest. That ugly incident stayed with me for a long time.  

I think my SIL's meds are a bit more stable and she has been better in the few years since this incident, but I will never forget it. Count your blessings that she is your brother's ex. 

wow she sounds just as crazy! unfortunately she's his ex until a couple days from now when she persuades him that she'll get help if he comes back to her. shes persuasive controlling and manipulative! she's sucked him into her crazyness and brainwashed him! ur right, even though i know shes psycho, the 1 true thing she said is that im fat, and i wanted everything she said to be crazy and wrong. 99.9%  of it is. i puched a door lol. i just feel like im not satisfied. i wont be until she's in trouble w/ the law for everything she's done

I know just what you mean about the brainwashing. I hope your brother does get out of this before he loses himself completely. Sadly, my brother is a much different person than he was and he and my SIL have been together now for 10+ years.