so sad how many people have left this place
I dunno... it's crazy. I remember that "feature" back when I joined the first time. I got impatient and said, "fuggedaboutit."
Apparently they're trying to 'protect us' from you new users.
I'm surprised you're moderated HERE on the UNMODERATED board, though. Seems unusual, doesn't it?
Apparently they're trying to 'protect us' from you new users.

Avoid kemmerling, Green Bay, WI
You really are a new member? Gimme a break, please. And you say I am a troublemaker!
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