Great Answer for Nosy People

happyteacher
on 2/2/12 8:11 am
 Hmmm.... mine may be "until I have a whole lot less skin for cancer to grow on".  That will shut them up!

Surgeon: Chengelis  Surgery on 12/19/2011  A little less carb eating compared to my weight loss phase loose sleever here!

1Mo: -21  2Mo: -16  3Mo: -12  4MO - 13  5MO: -11 6MO: -10 7MO: -10.3 8MO: -6  Goal in 8 months 4 days!!   6' 2''  EWL 103%  Starting size 28 or 4x (tight) now size 12 or large, shoe size 12 w to 10.5   150+ pounds lost  

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vacationlover
on 2/2/12 9:23 am
 I love when virtual strangers at work (I work for a very large company) who don't even know my name, ask me how much I've lost....

CW: 130ish HW: 264 SW:254 Hgt: 5'2

Goals-Dr:159-MET Mine:140-MET!!! Final Goal: 135-MET!!!!!

W4:-22 W8:-11 W12:-10.5 W16:-12 W20:-11.5 W24:-9.5 W28:-8 W32:-7.5 W36:-8 W40:-7.5 W44:-5 W48: -4.5 1Yr/W52: -7

BriarRose
on 2/2/12 10:21 am
I use the old I don't answer the question they asked response. I smile and thank them for noticing, and then I compliment something about them -- beautiful earrings, a nice shirt, how healthy they look today -- anything to refocus them. It works like a charm.

I'm totally not embarassed about my weight loss; I just do not need people that I don't care to share every detail of my poundage with asking me personal questions. So I thank them sincerely for noticing, and change subject. It works every time !
Briar Rose  
High Wt 300 lbs.  Pre-op Wt loss 34 lbs.   
BJUpNorth
on 2/2/12 11:01 am - MN
I like that one.
        
SouthernmostStar
on 2/2/12 11:40 am
VSG on 01/25/12
Excellent responses.  Thank you for sharing!

Prior to surgery I had a few people ask me how much I wanted to lose or what weight I wanted to be.  I tried a similar approach of explaining that it wasn't about the numbers but about being a healthier, more manageable weight.  Thankfully, nobody pushed!

Congratulations on your weight loss!

Mary

Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen
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