Support and Surgery

I must say that you made me laugh today.  I really like the way you think.
Thanks  a bunch.

"I will not tolerate a fat wife"???? You are kidding me!! Girl--that is NEVER an okay thing to say! Is counseling not an option because he won't go? Would you go to counseling just for you?  You need to feel confident and know that you are a beautiful person-no matter what your weight.  And the truth of the matter is--it's better to be alone than to be with someone who is abusive.  I remember when an ex-boyfriend and I broke up a long time ago. At first, I was so heartbroken but then one day, I realized how FREE that I felt. It was soooo nice to not have to worry about his constant approval all of the time! That's when I realized that if someone doesn't want to be with me--then I sure as heck don't want to be with them.(duh-I know--but it was an "aha" moment-lol) I'm too awesome to waste my time on someone who doesn't appreciate me--AND SO ARE YOU!!!

Hugs,
Pam