Divorce???
IM a size 6 rt now, 4 mo post sleeve, but in 2008 when i meet my SO i was a size 10, over the years i got bigger, and he didnt say anything, he is happy i am loosing the fat and supports me going to the gym. my gf married her hubby when she was big and well since she lost wt he got bigger, it strained their relationship, my daughter bf told her he cant be wiht a woman smaller than him so he is no longer in her life. it happens, problems were most likely already present, we were jsut to fat to stand up for ourselves.
on June 2nd. Nothing has changed and we are as strong as ever. 
My marriage is as strong as ever. My wife also has a weight problem and has joined me in eating well and although she isn't sleeved she has lost 80lbs in the past year.
I do find myself feeling a bit judgmental these days when I see her eating crap (which isn't often - but she still does from time to time). It's easy to get on your high horse when you have surgery and the weight is dropping so quick.
I just learned to bite my lip and give her nothing but encouragment and love instead of criticism. Relationships are always a compromise.
I do find myself feeling a bit judgmental these days when I see her eating crap (which isn't often - but she still does from time to time). It's easy to get on your high horse when you have surgery and the weight is dropping so quick.
I just learned to bite my lip and give her nothing but encouragment and love instead of criticism. Relationships are always a compromise.
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